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Shit. Have I made it sound like we’ve sold them a haunted house?

20 replies

ToddlerHostage · 12/07/2026 19:33

Lighthearted, before anyone gets too excited.

We’ve (“we” being me and my husband) just sold a house that’s been in one of our families for four generations. We’re the fourth generation but have never lived there. All going well, we close tomorrow and the new owners get the keys. Very straightforward sale and buyers have acted really nicely throughout, and I like to think we have too (not in UK and very much a seller’s market where we are), so generally very positively disposed towards each other, though have never met.

Buyers are a young family (first time buyers) and it’s an area that really is a lovely community and very family-friendly. A few of the neighbours have been asking us throughout the sale about the prospective buyers and they’re all happy it’s a family rather than an investor/property flipper.

I went to the house today just to do a few little last minute things, and also left a card and a small gift for the new owners.

In the card I wrote-

Dear Ella and Matthew.
Congratulations on your new home!
Delighted to see this house has found its new family.
Wishing you many years of happiness here.

TH and Mr. TH

I didn’t want to say anything that would be too focused on how long it’s been in our family because it might come across as a bit passive aggressive and like we were deeming them worthy. Equally, I wrote it in a bit of a rush as I was heading out the door.

Got home, mentioned to my husband that I’d left the card and gift. He asked me what did I write and I told him. He’s now of the view that the idea of a house finding its new owners clearly means that it’s a sentient and haunted house and they’ll be sleeping with the lights on.

He’s wrong, isn’t he?

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WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 12/07/2026 19:38

He's right, that was a creepy note. Try this.

"The house has been the subject of my family for decades now and as it approaches its 110th birthday, I have been put in charge of watching and waiting for its second coming. My grandfather watched the house in the 1920s and my father watched in the 1960s. It is now my time. Do you know the history of the house? Do you know what lies within the walls? Why are you here? I will find out."

JulietteHasAGun · 12/07/2026 19:38

Wouldn’t have crossed my mind to be honest.

MrSchubertWhiskers · 12/07/2026 19:39

Eh, it's one to read it - not how I'd read it though. Don't stress

TheWonderhorse · 12/07/2026 19:40

No, it doesn't sound haunted. Must try harder. Write their names in blood on the walls instead.

Nousernameideaaga · 12/07/2026 19:41

Of course he’s wrong. Prat 🤣

Maggierests · 12/07/2026 19:41

It’s a lovely nore. Don’t worry!

(Not sure which way round the voting works though.)

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 12/07/2026 19:42

Did you write underneath in lemon juice

"Don't forget to put out the burnt offerings to the spirit of the old witch executed here in 1692.... you know what happened to the last people who ignored the warning"

If not, you're grand

Maggierests · 12/07/2026 19:42

TheWonderhorse · 12/07/2026 19:40

No, it doesn't sound haunted. Must try harder. Write their names in blood on the walls instead.

😂😂😂

Purplecatshopaholic · 12/07/2026 19:43

Note is fine. Your DH has a weird mind, lol.

AzureComet · 12/07/2026 19:49

I would not be in the slightest concerned about this note!

ToddlerHostage · 12/07/2026 19:51

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 12/07/2026 19:38

He's right, that was a creepy note. Try this.

"The house has been the subject of my family for decades now and as it approaches its 110th birthday, I have been put in charge of watching and waiting for its second coming. My grandfather watched the house in the 1920s and my father watched in the 1960s. It is now my time. Do you know the history of the house? Do you know what lies within the walls? Why are you here? I will find out."

So what I’m hearing from you is that I shouldn’t have buried a human femur and a Native American headdress in the garden?

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ToddlerHostage · 12/07/2026 19:51

Purplecatshopaholic · 12/07/2026 19:43

Note is fine. Your DH has a weird mind, lol.

He really does ❤️❤️❤️

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Purplecatshopaholic · 12/07/2026 19:52

ToddlerHostage · 12/07/2026 19:51

He really does ❤️❤️❤️

Lol. So does mine, I get it.

AzureComet · 12/07/2026 19:57

I’m not at all woo but I felt my last house had a presence or two, didn’t bother me and it isn’t the kind of thing I would put on a form. Cooker - inbuilt. Boiler - certified. Possible ghost - not mentioned.

JoshLymanSwagger · 12/07/2026 20:02

@ToddlerHostage Nothing wrong with your note at all. Stop overthinking it.

Your DH needs to take a nap. He's obviously suffering from a lack of football. Grin

TankFlyBossW4lk · 12/07/2026 20:09

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 12/07/2026 19:38

He's right, that was a creepy note. Try this.

"The house has been the subject of my family for decades now and as it approaches its 110th birthday, I have been put in charge of watching and waiting for its second coming. My grandfather watched the house in the 1920s and my father watched in the 1960s. It is now my time. Do you know the history of the house? Do you know what lies within the walls? Why are you here? I will find out."

😂

Op, you're note is fine. It's not creepy

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 12/07/2026 20:31

ToddlerHostage · 12/07/2026 19:51

So what I’m hearing from you is that I shouldn’t have buried a human femur and a Native American headdress in the garden?

It's the least you could have done tbh.

ToddlerHostage · 12/07/2026 20:33

WhatHappenedToYourFurnitureCuz · 12/07/2026 20:31

It's the least you could have done tbh.

Then maybe leaving a three-piece suit in the wardrobe with a note saying “this is the outfit Great-Grandfather Alfred was buried in, treasure it always” was overstepping? 🫤

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chirrupybird · 12/07/2026 20:35

It was a really nice message showing your affection for the house, not at all scary.

DidYeAye16 · 12/07/2026 20:38

I wouldn't have read it the way your husband did at all.

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