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AIBU?

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I'm just sick of city life

9 replies

nogenderprefence123 · 12/07/2026 14:47

I want to move to an area that's outside of the m60 as I'm sick of living with people who aren't like me. I'm now family focused and want to live in a low crime area with a community feel.

I've heard a smaller village like Ramsbottom is nice

Aibu to think about moving?

I have no local friends and toddler isn't in school yet

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LakieLady · 12/07/2026 14:51

I moved from south London to a small town in the South Downs 30-odd years ago.

Best thing I ever did, and I wouldn't move to any big city now.

nogenderprefence123 · 12/07/2026 15:00

Easier now with WFH

I just worry that things like soft play etc aren't local

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Ilikewinter · 12/07/2026 15:09

I moved from Manchester to a small village in rural Lincolnshire!!!
If you want to move then go for it, have you tried local Facebook groups to see if there are the amenities that you want/ need?

nogenderprefence123 · 12/07/2026 15:39

Ilikewinter · 12/07/2026 15:09

I moved from Manchester to a small village in rural Lincolnshire!!!
If you want to move then go for it, have you tried local Facebook groups to see if there are the amenities that you want/ need?

I guess if other families manage I should be ok?

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Meadowfinch · 12/07/2026 15:43

I moved from central London to a village near Newbury and my old home village.

Such a relief. Much friendlier and plenty of facilities like soft play, country parks, coding clubs, swimming pools etc.

AmberSpy · 12/07/2026 15:49

Moved from London to a small town in Essex. Far and away the best decision I have ever made. I'd never go back.

MrsMoastyToasty · 12/07/2026 15:53

I moved from Bristol to a town midway between Bristol and Bath. Close enough to both of them when I need something that I can't get locally (about 10 minutes by train to either of them) and far enough that I feel safe and welcomed.

MintChocHip · 12/07/2026 15:57

I’m missing people like me too, I really really am. Don’t know where to move to.

Ilikewinter · 12/07/2026 15:57

nogenderprefence123 · 12/07/2026 15:39

I guess if other families manage I should be ok?

Just make sure you do your home work first, you mentioned things like soft play, but also consider transport and distance to shops. For example, we are totally reliant on the car and whilst we have a post office and local shop, main supermarkets are 15 miles away. Obviously a massive difference to living in / near Manchester!!

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