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How proficient are your DIY skills?

38 replies

CardboardBoxesLily · 12/07/2026 14:05

I feel rather proud when I’ve hung a mirror or shelf (simple, I know) and just wondering how skilled others are in DIY? Are you confident using power tools, saws and so on? Any tips or general advice?

YABU - I can do basic DIY
YANBU - I need help with most DIY

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ForgedForDrizzleAndDisappointment · 12/07/2026 14:09

I am capable of most DIY - my dad was keen to teach us all he could. However I live in a stupid old house and every simple job has mission creep because everything is wonky and/or previously bodged and/or really old and/or very broken.

WhatAMarvelousTune · 12/07/2026 14:14

Capable? Reasonably.

Willing? No.

Whowhatwhere21 · 12/07/2026 14:19

I can manage a fair bit. My dad always did our DIY from basics to electrics and plumbing so I picked up a lot from him. Me and my ex bought a shit hole subsided first house that we stripped back to brick and did all the work ourselves, I picked up a lot doing that and made a lot of mistakes! Two things I can't do, plastering, tried and failed many times, and I've never tried to remove a radiator before.

I actually really enjoy DIY though and I think its much easier to learn something when you enjoy it. I don't enjoy drilling into brick, that's a job I'll palm off if I can 😅

Backedoffhackedoff · 12/07/2026 14:21

Terrible. I’ve done plenty but don’t retain any skills or memory of how to do it. I’m also quite cack handed.

i can’t carry skillls over- ie I was fine drilling and hanging things in my previous solid brick house, I now live in a new build with internal plasterboard and I’ve been here for 10 years and not worked out how to hang things in it.

Meadowfinch · 12/07/2026 14:23

As a 60yo woman, I can hang a picture, attach a TV bracket to a wall, redecorate a room, clean skylights, repoint brickwork, tile a bathroom and repair plasterwork within reason.

I can repair a bike puncture, do basic car maintenance like oil levels and coolant etc and change a wheel in an emergency.

I've replaced panes of glass in my greenhouse and installed one of those auto openers.

It comes from being a single mum - there's no-one else to do it. And YouTube is very good at showing us how.

Well done OP. Women on the 21st century. 😎

AnOceanBetweenUs · 12/07/2026 14:24

I have done it in the past but don’t enjoy it. My partner is pretty good but he can’t be arsed either. We pay someone to do anything we need.

Sparrowsandbudgies · 12/07/2026 14:26

I have done loads, mainly because we can’t afford to pay anyone else to do it. I’ve painted, wallpapered, put up shelves and all sorts.

RudolphTheReindeer · 12/07/2026 14:35

I don't like using power tools they scare me (I'm autistic it's the noise). I've changed a few taps though!

AgathaX · 12/07/2026 14:38

I'm fairly proficient. Happy to use power tools. Can plaster, fit skirting boards etc, have fitted kitchens in the past.

FoxtrotOscarKindaDay · 12/07/2026 14:38

Autistic and have all the power tools and know how to use them. Can't tolerate strangers in my house/garden so I do everything myself. Was raised to be independent.

Nourishinghandcream · 12/07/2026 14:57

When I was young & single and bought my first house (ex-LA 1930's TBS) it was in a terrible state but my Ddad said that we could make it habitable in 3-months.
It was had work but luckily my Ddad was very practical (ex-trade) so I learnt a lot and having got a few rooms sorted I did indeed move in 3-months later. With the plumbing, electrics & alterations sorted (by Ddad) the remainder I did when living there, often decorating into the small hours after a day at work. I built up a brilliant set of tools and once was even given an electric planer & set of wood chisels as a birthday gift so I could fit a set of new doors (and done very successfully even if I say so myself)!

Nowadays I still tend to do the decorating but mainly as my OH does all the heavier jobs.
That said, I have my own area in my OH's workshop where I can work on projects that are too big/heavy/dirty for my art room.
My next thing is to have a small spray booth set up, I have a compressor but overspray is a real problem. Because of this, projects are on hold for now but when up & running I will be painting parts of my OH's vintage motorcycle.😁

Whydoweedsgrowsofast · 12/07/2026 15:00

I can do most things. Certainly competent with power tools etc. These days I more often get someone in but that is purely a time thing.

lovecotswoldsliving · 12/07/2026 15:01

My husband just put a new roof on our house. Having got ridiculous quotes, he has saved us a fortune.

Nourishinghandcream · 12/07/2026 15:05

@Meadowfinch
"I can repair a bike puncture, do basic car maintenance like oil levels and coolant etc and change a wheel in an emergency."

Well done.👍

That reminds me.
When In started to drive my Ddad suggested I went on a basic car maintenance course at the local collage, proved to be very useful and I think some level of competency should be compulsory.
I was already fairly practical as I was driving cars (on private property) at a very young age and at 16 started riding a moped as it was the only way to get to work & college. That sort of thing tends to make you independent very quickly.

DancingLions · 12/07/2026 15:11

I can do a fair bit and if a job comes up that I'm not sure of, then I will research, watch YouTube videos etc. I can be a bit of a geek and quite like learning this stuff!

I also do all my own decorating. Decorators charge an absolute fortune and I've seen enough complaints about their work to know its no guarantee they'd do a better job than me.

I don't really like paying people to do things I can do myself. I'm not tight generally, can spend a bit too much on other things! But I do have a lot of free time to do stuff myself.

Cooshawn · 12/07/2026 15:37

Very proficient. I'm an engineer so there'd be something very wrong if I couldn't manage some DIY.

That said, I absolutely hate DIY and definitely don't want to spend my leisure time doing it so I almost always just get someone in.

ObelixtheGaul · 12/07/2026 15:47

RudolphTheReindeer · 12/07/2026 14:35

I don't like using power tools they scare me (I'm autistic it's the noise). I've changed a few taps though!

Edited

I'm not autistic but I'm like that with the noise. Headphones help, but with drills you need to hear the change in sound.
I have had to get past it to some degree as I used to struggle with the hoover noise and had to leave the house when the washing machine was on.

RudolphTheReindeer · 12/07/2026 16:22

ObelixtheGaul · 12/07/2026 15:47

I'm not autistic but I'm like that with the noise. Headphones help, but with drills you need to hear the change in sound.
I have had to get past it to some degree as I used to struggle with the hoover noise and had to leave the house when the washing machine was on.

I think if I got on and used them I'd get over it. I associate loud noise with something bad happening for some reason. I used to hate the blender but I'm fine now I'm used to it. I did try a jigsaw recently but turned it off as soon as it was on but it took a second ro tow to actually stop and I ended up with a wonky shelf 😂. Luckily it's in a cupboard.

Swissrailways · 12/07/2026 16:27

I love a power tool! One of my best presents ever is a cordless drill/driver.
I can do most things except plumbing (OH isn't bad at basic stuff) and living in a Victorian property, I'd love to be able to plaster. That is definitely a job for a professional.
There are jobs I won't do again eg fitting laminate flooring (ruined my knees) and balancing on the bannister to paint our very high stairwell.

JoshLymanSwagger · 12/07/2026 16:27

I don't like the noise.

Power tools, lawn mower, washing machine at full spin.

It makes me want to escape my own skin iyswim.

Hammer and nails, fine. Putting flat-pack together, no problem.

I know how to do it. I just won't - and earplugs etc don't help.

ObelixtheGaul · 12/07/2026 16:30

RudolphTheReindeer · 12/07/2026 16:22

I think if I got on and used them I'd get over it. I associate loud noise with something bad happening for some reason. I used to hate the blender but I'm fine now I'm used to it. I did try a jigsaw recently but turned it off as soon as it was on but it took a second ro tow to actually stop and I ended up with a wonky shelf 😂. Luckily it's in a cupboard.

I made myself do some sanding on the upstairs floor recently, with headphones. Like you I associate the sound with bad things happening. I've always been the same, no idea why.

ImPamDoove · 12/07/2026 16:31

Absolutely zero. I’m not proud. I am incredibly useless and lazy.

CardboardBoxesLily · 12/07/2026 16:38

Meadowfinch · 12/07/2026 14:23

As a 60yo woman, I can hang a picture, attach a TV bracket to a wall, redecorate a room, clean skylights, repoint brickwork, tile a bathroom and repair plasterwork within reason.

I can repair a bike puncture, do basic car maintenance like oil levels and coolant etc and change a wheel in an emergency.

I've replaced panes of glass in my greenhouse and installed one of those auto openers.

It comes from being a single mum - there's no-one else to do it. And YouTube is very good at showing us how.

Well done OP. Women on the 21st century. 😎

Edited

That’s really impressive. I’ve not ventured into tiling yet but I do have the basics down and feel like along with YouTube I could tackle this. I have a bathroom that needs redecorating and was going to just paint it but I feel inspired now.

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CardboardBoxesLily · 12/07/2026 16:44

AgathaX · 12/07/2026 14:38

I'm fairly proficient. Happy to use power tools. Can plaster, fit skirting boards etc, have fitted kitchens in the past.

Fitted a kitchen, wow. All of the levelling and fitting and joining of worktops must take a lot of precision and skill.

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Stompythedinosaur · 12/07/2026 16:48

I found my diy skills improved exponentially when we first bought our house and were super poor!

Honestly, there's a you tube video on how to do almost anything!