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Is this child abuse and do I report it?

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Notsurenotsurenotsure · 02/07/2026 22:06

My neighbours have an eight month old baby. The past two weeks he's been crying loads. I'm not sure if he's always cried this much or if I can just hear it because the windows are open. Anyway, he just cries and cries, really upset, for up to an hour at a time. I often hear raised voices at the same time, including shouting and swearing at the baby to shut the fuck up. AIBU to report this? If so who to?

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RoseField1 · 02/07/2026 22:06

Social services

whatyagotcooking · 02/07/2026 22:11

Oh wow! Screaming ‘shut the fuck up’ to a distressed baby is definitely concerning. They may be at the end of their tether and who knows where that could lead. Yes, you should probably report it.

JanFebAndOnwards · 02/07/2026 22:12

Yup report. Children’s services can investigate.

ToffeePennie · 02/07/2026 22:14

If you think child abuse, report it!

CalmTheFuckDownMargaret · 02/07/2026 22:43

Try to record the noise and definitely report it.

Stompythedinosaur · 02/07/2026 22:45

Yes, that needs to be reported imo.

StepawayfromtheLindors · 02/07/2026 22:45

Do you really have to ask? Of course you should report it, right now.

SalmonOnFinnCrisp · 02/07/2026 22:50

Absolutely abuse.

Social services and be very clear about what you've heard and do not minimise or hedge
Eg "they might have been.. " "i am not sure"

You know what you heard

OneLimePombear · 02/07/2026 22:51

This is heartbreaking.

Minasama · 02/07/2026 22:52

Gosh, this makes me so upset and angry. I assume you don’t want to pop over and chat to the sort of people that use the f-word to a baby, so yes, def report it.

Rubyslipperswitch · 02/07/2026 22:55

Please report this. This child is in distress.

Notsurenotsurenotsure · 03/07/2026 05:54

Thanks all, I've reported it.

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