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AIBU to imagine a female-run society with men subordinated?

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Yottyyottyhohoho · 02/07/2026 15:25

On the back of another thread, I’d like a society where women are fully in charge of everything. We’d castrate a lot of men and have them work in important manual jobs for us. The younger castrated ones could be kept as singers.

We’d keep some decent specimens for breeding, a bit like special pets. Men wouldn’t need an education, this would just be for us women.

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Yottyyottyhohoho · 02/07/2026 15:29

Pinned

I’m female and not completely serious.

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 02/07/2026 15:26

You sound bonkers.

fuckeditupbadly · 02/07/2026 15:27

There's a drama on Netflix with this as its basic premise. Sacha Baron Cohen and ..the mum from Saltburn. Forgot her name. Its funny but actually shows up that dominance either way doesn't work.

6ate9 · 02/07/2026 15:27

What an awful post!!!

Yottyyottyhohoho · 02/07/2026 15:28

It happens the other way round for women in many cultures. Is that also bonkers?

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butterfluff · 02/07/2026 15:28

I bet OP is a man with a castration fetish!

maudelovesharold · 02/07/2026 15:29

I don’t know the thread you’re referring to, but I would have thought a better society to aspire to, would be one where no person is subordinate to any other.

Yottyyottyhohoho · 02/07/2026 15:29

I’m female and not completely serious.

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BauhausOfEliott · 02/07/2026 15:30

Yottyyottyhohoho · 02/07/2026 15:28

It happens the other way round for women in many cultures. Is that also bonkers?

Yes. Yes it is.

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 02/07/2026 15:30

We’d keep some decent specimens for breeding

Which ones?

No Brad Pitts please.

MaybeIamJustABitch · 02/07/2026 15:30

I'm not sure on castration, but having the snip at birth might work, so long as reversing is done for the right reasons when a request is made.

Yottyyottyhohoho · 02/07/2026 15:31

BauhausOfEliott · 02/07/2026 15:30

Yes. Yes it is.

It’s awful actually and real.

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Yottyyottyhohoho · 02/07/2026 15:41

Just think of a world where women are safe in their own homes and safe to walk the streets day or night.

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Yottyyottyhohoho · 02/07/2026 15:44

In so many things men are in charge and they do a pretty poor job. I’m looking at you Trump and Putin.

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CanSeeClearlyNowTheRainHasGone · 02/07/2026 16:43

Yottyyottyhohoho · 02/07/2026 15:29

I’m female and not completely serious.

I’m female ...
is that that some kinda figleaf that you think excuses this?
... and not completely serious

Try posting the same scenario but polarised along racial lines. See how far you get with the "I'm white and not completely serious "

Yottyyottyhohoho · 02/07/2026 16:57

CanSeeClearlyNowTheRainHasGone · 02/07/2026 16:43

I’m female ...
is that that some kinda figleaf that you think excuses this?
... and not completely serious

Try posting the same scenario but polarised along racial lines. See how far you get with the "I'm white and not completely serious "

It’s about time women were more in control the world over. Women face so much subjugation from men, that’s what is so wrong.

Try posting the same scenario “I’m male…. Oh hang on it’s already happening in some parts of the world.

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MrsShawnHatosy · 02/07/2026 17:10

Yottyyottyhohoho · 02/07/2026 15:28

It happens the other way round for women in many cultures. Is that also bonkers?

Which cultures routinely castrate men?

6ate9 · 02/07/2026 17:34

MrsShawnHatosy · 02/07/2026 17:10

Which cultures routinely castrate men?

Perhaps the “anti men” brigade should be sterilised in case they have sons!!!!

Lararoft · 02/07/2026 17:54

Ew no, everyone should be equal.

Yottyyottyhohoho · 02/07/2026 18:13

MrsShawnHatosy · 02/07/2026 17:10

Which cultures routinely castrate men?

None that I know of. It’s women who face genital mutilation.

Female genital mutilation (FGM) comprises all procedures that involve partial or total removal of the external female genitalia, or other injury to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons. The practice has no health benefits for girls and women and can result in severe bleeding and problems urinating, and later cysts, menstrual difficulties, infections, as well as complications in childbirth and increased risk of newborn deaths.

The practice of FGM is recognized internationally as a violation of the human rights of girls and women. It reflects deep-rooted inequality between the sexes and constitutes an extreme form of discrimination against girls and women. It is nearly always carried out on minors and is a violation of the rights of children. The practice also violates a person's right to health, security and physical integrity; the right to be free from torture and cruel, inhuman or degrading treatment; and the right to life.

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banmusk · 02/07/2026 18:36

How would we subjugate them when they are bigger & stronger than us?

Elsvieta · 02/07/2026 20:08

maudelovesharold · 02/07/2026 15:29

I don’t know the thread you’re referring to, but I would have thought a better society to aspire to, would be one where no person is subordinate to any other.

I think she's spoofing the thread earlier today where some idiot was saying we should have "a society where everyone pays for themselves" with no taxation, benefits, health service etc. Claimed to have worked in finance and didn't appear to know what "capitalism" means.

Yottyyottyhohoho · 02/07/2026 20:14

Elsvieta · 02/07/2026 20:08

I think she's spoofing the thread earlier today where some idiot was saying we should have "a society where everyone pays for themselves" with no taxation, benefits, health service etc. Claimed to have worked in finance and didn't appear to know what "capitalism" means.

Yep.

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Jc2001 · 02/07/2026 20:54

Yottyyottyhohoho · 02/07/2026 15:25

On the back of another thread, I’d like a society where women are fully in charge of everything. We’d castrate a lot of men and have them work in important manual jobs for us. The younger castrated ones could be kept as singers.

We’d keep some decent specimens for breeding, a bit like special pets. Men wouldn’t need an education, this would just be for us women.

You might not be serious but it's a bit of a troubling fantasy.

Yottyyottyhohoho · 02/07/2026 23:23

The awful things men do troubles me. Barely a day passes without us hearing news about men that rape, men that murder, men that are paedophiles, grooming gangs, etc. Today on the news it was reported about a group of men who had been raping a man’s wife whilst she was drugged.

https://www.gmp.police.uk/news/greater-manchester/news/news/2026/june/men-charged-with-serious-sexual-offences-against-same-woman/

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