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Aibu to overthink this??

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rachel55488 · 01/07/2026 13:37

So the other day when my partner was leaving his son home. As he usually does (Near a coastal area) he told me he left his son home then went a drive round the coastal area by himself because it was sunny and he was listening to music. He told me this as soon as he got to my house. He told me he originally asked his son did he want to go a drive round the coastal area but he’s 13 so he just likes gaming so went on home. So he told me it was sunny and he was listening to good music so he just went a drive around it. Is this normal? He messaged me around 6pm saying see you soon then came to my house around 6.50 and said oh I just went a drive by myself (he is really big into music) I accused him and asked was he away meeting a girl 🤣 does anybody else do this when it’s sunny

OP posts:
Idontjetwashthefucker · 03/07/2026 21:58

Eightdayz · 03/07/2026 21:40

Deffo cheating.

Next time demand to smell his penis. This will confirm your fears.

😁

Wildefish · 06/07/2026 17:55

rachel55488 · 01/07/2026 13:37

So the other day when my partner was leaving his son home. As he usually does (Near a coastal area) he told me he left his son home then went a drive round the coastal area by himself because it was sunny and he was listening to music. He told me this as soon as he got to my house. He told me he originally asked his son did he want to go a drive round the coastal area but he’s 13 so he just likes gaming so went on home. So he told me it was sunny and he was listening to good music so he just went a drive around it. Is this normal? He messaged me around 6pm saying see you soon then came to my house around 6.50 and said oh I just went a drive by myself (he is really big into music) I accused him and asked was he away meeting a girl 🤣 does anybody else do this when it’s sunny

FFS… I love a drive on a sunny day and could quite easily do it in my own even without good music.

Wildefish · 06/07/2026 17:58

YorksMa · 01/07/2026 15:31

I've just been reading all your other posts about your poor boyfriend, many of them more concerning than this one. I think there are three possibilities:

  1. You're winding us all up.
  2. You're way too immature to be in any kind of relationship (you sound about 14)
  3. You're paranoid, controlling and abusive
Whichever one it is, you're being very unreasonable.

I’m going for No 1.

MrsMoastyToasty · 06/07/2026 18:02

If he's got an air conditioned car then he's probably in the best place.

MoonWoman69 · 06/07/2026 19:00

What an absolutely bizarre post. You're coming across as a weirdo. Are you a teenager? I don't think you're mature enough to be in a relationship from what I've just read!
No, it isn't unusual to go out for a drive and listen to music, as you will see from the comments on here. And especially as he was at a loose end once he'd dropped his son off.
I suspect he decided to stay out to have some time on his own, away from the drama you seem to like creating!
I know I certainly would!

Nourishinghandcream · 06/07/2026 19:21

The OP is either lacking in communication & relationship skills or a troll as there is a string of threads each as unreasonable as the previous one.

If real, please do yourself and your partner a favour and end the relationship as this is not healthy for either of you.

AnnoyedAsAllHeck · 06/07/2026 20:56

Rondayvu · 03/07/2026 13:02

Congratulations on your boyfriends son getting two years younger in the last few months. Any tips on how to do this? I could do with stopping my own aging process.

I could use a few years off my age. Maybe I can donate a couple of years back to her "BF's DS"?

OP I hope you get help because you are either doing this for attention or because you are batshite cray-cray. Either way, you need a lot more help than anyone here can provide.

pouletvous · Yesterday 19:57

Was he driving around leering at women?

Lollipop81 · Today 18:21

Your boyfriend should run for the hills. Carry on the way you are and he will

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