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Neighbours smoking weed

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CocoBean22 · 25/06/2026 21:34

We’ve new neighbours moved next door to us who are lovey hard working and polite people, a nice family who we have got on well with since moving in.
We’ve noticed they smoke weed in the garden.
It’s not bothering us to be honest, but a family member said ‘oh I would be putting up with that I’d report them’
Its harmless enough and not really affecting us so my question is would you be bothered or not?

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GoodkneeBadKnee · 25/06/2026 21:37

Report them to who?

Heidi2018 · 25/06/2026 21:38

Why would you report them if it's not bothering you? Id probably be a bit miffed by the smell but still wouldn't be bothered doing anything about it!

GreatThingsAwait · 25/06/2026 21:39

It wouldn’t bother me from a moral/legal view but I’d hate to have to put up with the revolting vomit’y smell

ThisGladGoose · 25/06/2026 21:54

What people do in their own garden is their own business, so no I wouldn't report them and I seriously doubt the police would take any kind of interest if you did.

Bumbelinaaa · 25/06/2026 22:20

Wouldn’t bother me personally.

If you think it’s fine, then stand by that. You don’t need other people to validate your opinion just because a relative disagrees! Trust your own judgement.

BauhausOfEliott · 25/06/2026 23:59

My neighbour, who is lovely, smokes weed in his garden most days. I really don’t know why anyone would have a problem with someone doing it. If it’s accompanied by antisocial behaviour then obviously that’s different, but other than an occasional waft of cannabis smell now and again, which is a fleeting thing and probably less intrusive than the smell of cigarettes or vapes, what is there to be bothered about?

Owenspannas · 26/06/2026 00:03

My neighbour seems to smoke weed continuously. It stinks and I hate it but I don’t think they’re actually doing anything wrong so there’s no one to make a report to

TinyTempest · 26/06/2026 00:05

Weed stinks but your family member is deluded if they think the police are going to be interested in someone smoking a few joints in their garden.

herewegoagain432 · 26/06/2026 00:10

I wouldn’t be happy if my kids were playing and the smell of weed was wafting towards them.

BauhausOfEliott · 26/06/2026 13:43

herewegoagain432 · 26/06/2026 00:10

I wouldn’t be happy if my kids were playing and the smell of weed was wafting towards them.

It’s probably a less objectionable smell, less harmful to health, and much more short-lived, than the smoke from a barbecue.

ThisGladGoose · 26/06/2026 22:38

herewegoagain432 · 26/06/2026 00:10

I wouldn’t be happy if my kids were playing and the smell of weed was wafting towards them.

Would they recognise the smell? Mine wouldn't, it's just one of a great many smells one catches an occasional whiff of whilst out and about. No need to make a song and dance about what it is.

If it's a health related thing, ask yourself if you feel the same about bonfires, cigarettes, vapes, barbecues and gas stoves - all of which are considered by some authorities to be injurious to health. If the weed smoker is far enough away (e.g. in their own garden) I fail to see how even passive smoking could be a health concern.

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