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AIBU for wondering if a new build estate was social housing?

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Baconrollplease · 14/06/2026 21:18

It was my ds’s birthday so we had a day out at the zoo with afew of his friends. I was dropping off one of the children, who happens to live in a new build estate in a neighbouring town. The estate seemed nice as first glance then I saw an old sofa sitting in one of the front gardens. I turned to DH and said ‘I was wondering to myself if this is all housing association property and then I saw that sofa sitting in the garden’. He scoffed. I felt like a terrible snob afterwards.

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Needmorelego · 14/06/2026 21:22

Why does a sofa in the garden = social housing?

MyPinkOtter · 14/06/2026 21:24

I mean, most new-build housing estates will have a mix of social housing and private ownership right?

The juxtaposition in your post between ‘nice’ estate and one with social housing does make you sound like a snob, yes.

MajorSamanthaCarter · 14/06/2026 21:25

You really can't think of any reason why someone would have an old sofa outside other than 'must be social housing'?

Larrythecatforpm · 14/06/2026 21:26

Maybe it’s the day the council collect large items tomorrow? But yes you’re a complete snob.

youalright · 14/06/2026 21:28

I own my own home and I have had furniture out the front multiple times waiting for the council to pick it up. All new estates will have some social housing in it

sickofthissick · 14/06/2026 21:29

Christ. You sound like my mother. She was obsessed with 'cars on bricks' on 'council estates'. I thought this kind of insidious snottiness went out in the 90s.

Needmorelego · 14/06/2026 21:31

To be honest if an entire new build estate was "social housing" I'd be over the moon.
It's exactly what we need in the UK.

Baconrollplease · 14/06/2026 21:37

Larrythecatforpm · 14/06/2026 21:26

Maybe it’s the day the council collect large items tomorrow? But yes you’re a complete snob.

I dunno… looked like it had been there a while..

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Westfacing · 14/06/2026 21:39

So just a few friends invited to the party and one lives in a neighbouring town - and you’re now wondering if it’s social housing?

Give over - you just made that up!

HoskinsChoice · 14/06/2026 23:13

This story is definitely true.

Thechaseison71 · 14/06/2026 23:15

Baconrollplease · 14/06/2026 21:37

I dunno… looked like it had been there a while..

If it's like my council it's a minimum 3 week wait to collect bulky refuse.

But I don't see the connection between the sofa and social housing

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