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Dr saying this isn't perimenopause

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JoyousSquid · 02/06/2026 10:39

I am about to turn 43 and am pretty sure I'm going through perimenopause – my skin has become unbelievably dry (particularly around my face), my periods are now much shorter (1-2 days) but really heavy, I'm all of a sudden suffering from really bad motion sickness (never been an issue), my hair is changing, I feel irritable and very anxious, and I find myself crying at Instagram posts. I went to see my GP (who is elderly and male) and he very helpfully told me I'm "far too young" to be going through perimenopause and that I probably had PCOS (despite this never being an issue and I've also had several internal scans when getting fertility testing done). AIBU to say this is ridiculous?! I have several friends on HRT who have said it's amazing and I want to talk about options with my GP but he insists that I'm not going through peri...

RhiannonEMumsnet · 04/06/2026 11:40

Hi OP, we're really sorry to hear about your experience. We thought users on this thread might be interested to know that we're currently running a campaign to tackle medical misogyny, and one of our asks is that clinicians get proper training on things like menopause to ensure that women aren't dismissed in this way. You can find out more about the campaign here and our petition on medical education is here. Please do sign and share!

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