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My manager has banned all vests, skirts and shorts

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itsjustthepricewepay · Yesterday 13:32

I could cry right now.

I understand banning thin strapped vests but surely thick straps are fine? She’s also banned all shorts (including knee length) and skirts that sit at the knee. Basically we have to go down to ankle length trousers.

AIBU to genuinely consider quitting my job? Her office is air conditioned but we’re in a horrible hot sun trap!

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maxslice · Today 19:29

Cob81 · Today 18:30

Nobody under the age of 80 uses the word frock for good reason 😂

I find the word “frock” charming. It elevates the ordinary.

Rose213 · Today 19:29

Some strange responses on here from people who are against wearing lighter clothing during a heatwave in an a hot office... I wonder if some people are self conscious in how they look and are projecting their insecurities on others?

Possiblyfamous · Today 19:30

Sennelier1 · Today 18:16

My young daughter (she was 11 at the time) was once told her top was indecent. Yes it was sleeveless but really just what you describe as "the sleeves cut of". Full shoulder width, regular neckline, regular lenght. Nothing sexualizing at all. They made her wear her PE sweater - in a heatwave - untill she fainted. Only then did they call me to pick her up. And even then they belittled me about the bad choice of clothing - because of the reputation of their school?!?! I just took my child and left. And then I denounced the school to the right authorities for moral cruelty and bigotry.

Sigh….

Delici · Today 19:34

You would rather quit than wear short sleeves and a slightly longer skirt?

bafta16 · Today 19:37

YoBetty · Yesterday 14:59

No, they start work at silly am, then everything shuts for a siesta during the hottest part of the day.

I suppose some women must work in the heat of the day?

ScartlettSole · Today 19:40

itsjustthepricewepay · Yesterday 13:49

Why are my shoulders or knees “inappropriate”? I just don’t get it 😂

They aren't. Your clothing has absolutely no bearing on your ability to do your job unless it's safety equipment like a fire fighter. Folk just get their knickers (or bloomers as I guessing knickers are somehow inappropriate) in a twist for nothing. Who actually gives a shit about a shoulder or a knee being visible 😂

Gettingbysomehow · Today 19:42

I wore shorts with my NHS tunic today but they were knee length as per dress policy and I shaved my legs.
I wear llama leggings cropped joggers. They look very smart in black. Worn with smart black clogs and trainer socks. So much cooler than my normal trousers and trainers and totally dress code.

Btowngirl · Today 19:49

Feels mad to me you’re so bothered about it when it sounds like you have quite a sedentary job anyway? Does a tshirt sleeve really make you that much hotter? My uniform remains the same whether it’s summer or winter, we don’t have air con and I just don’t see the huge issue?

RitaIncognita · Today 19:58

Jayne35 · Today 18:51

Some catering jobs say no perfume, and hospitality, can't stand waiting staff walking round in a cloud of perfume or aftershave.

Perfume can trigger migraines and other conditions in some people. That's why some workplaces request that people not use it. The last several conferences I have attended had guidelines suggesting that people not wear perfume.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · Today 20:06

WhatMyNameis · Today 19:14

I know, right?!

WTF - armpit hair inappropriate??!! 🤣🤣🤣
Oh good lord! What is it with people and YOUR NATURAL FUCKING STATE OF BEING?

I don’t like seeing armpit hair on men or women - and if it is sweaty, I like it even less - but that is completely a ‘me’ problem, and I simply don’t have to look.

LlynTegid · Today 20:12

Summer has happened every year since the end of the ice age. The impact of the climate crisis has been felt for at least 20 years.

Changing expectations about what is acceptable to wear in an office should have been done long before anyone started buying summer clothes, at the very least.

Also, without asking the OPs job, I wonder if for part of this week it could have been done from home?

CatA27 · Today 20:12

BridgetJonesV2 · Yesterday 13:36

Sorry but no one wants exposed arm pits out in this heat. I'm with her on that.

Because exposed armpits smell worse than ones wrapped in polyester?

Jk987 · Today 20:12

I understand about tops which are see through or show bra straps or loads of boob. Doesn’t look professional.
knee length skirts though? Are you client facing ?

MrPickles73 · Today 20:13

Take a fan in with you

Crole · Today 20:53

For non-customer facing office job roles I think people should wear whatever they feel comfortable in, I'm really surprised at most people disagreeing on this thread. Quite patronising to 'ban' items of clothing. Only ever had that with strapless sandals, I think because of fire regulations?

I live in Germany where it's perfectly normal to wear jeans and a vest type shirt to work.

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