To find this an utterly crass term to send someone you are dating

[Datingagain25]

I’ve had 5 dates with a man, so far so good. We were intimate after date 5 when he came back to mine. He was obviously drunk last night and we were messaging back and forth.

He said ‘do you know what I can’t wait to do to you next time’. I obviously replied to ask what. To which the reply was ‘tongue punch your fart box’

My friends were not lying when they said dating isn’t for the faint hearted😷

Would you also be grossed out, or see it is a compliment? Which is what he said when I challenged!

I’d block him. Instant ick.

Instant block from me. Yuck.

Report yourself to the police for dating a 13 year old?

Ha! He’s 34.

I couldn't go out with him again. I would tell him it isn't working out, best of luck and then move on.

I wouldn't block. I think this whole blocking business is ridiculous. Let him respond if he wants to, that's fair. Only block if he becomes a nuisance.

Chuck that one back in the sea.

Ffs 😂

Why was he obviously drunk? Massive ick and I couldn’t get past that.

I think this might fall under “the worst things anyone could say to you”

Not what I expected to read lol. It is gross.

U less you want your fart box tongue punching?

Even if he tries to pass it off as 'bantz', the fact that these words were in his vocabulary, would have me running for the hills.

If you need to ask whether you're being unreasonable to find that crass, I don't think you should be dating.

Instant block. Utterly vile. Sounds like he's about 12. 😖

You telling us he’s 34 does not help his case
🤮 yuckity fucking yuck.

I’d be done with this one. Urgh, what a fucking loser.

That is utterly repulsive but the inventiveness of the wordplay did make me laugh.

Stomach churning. I couldn't even look him the eye with any amount of respect let alone get intimate with him.

He's a dickhead. Block. Next!

the fact that these words were in his vocabulary, would have me running for the hills.
^ have to agree with this statement. No normal adult would think those words nevermind say them. Get rid.

Eurgh just why would he think you’d want him to say that to you?! It’s just a bit disrespectful really, it’s only been 5 dates. Surely you need to know somebody an awful lot better before you start using language like that around them.

Just tell him “eww, that’s revolting, both the language and the act”
or “eww the language is revolting “ if you don’t mind the act.
Talk to him. Is it a bawdy sense of humour or a bad use of language or a raging perv, you can’t tell, you need more information.

Although surely he can’t think you will find the term “fart box” erotic….perhaps I’m being too nice

I would call him out on his gross language. How have the dates gone? It would definitely taint my opinion of him, so I would have a conversation with him when he is sober and then decide. I would never block.

Wow, selling that, wasnt he?! And himself with it 😬

🤢🤢🤢🤢thats just gross 🤢 🤢 🤢 🤢 I'd be getting rid quick

Wtf!!! Gross

I would block and move on op, eeewwww

I’ve got instant ick and I don’t even know him 🙈. How erm… sexy… 🙈

Presumably you have massive date 5 regret?