To find this an utterly crass term to send someone you are dating

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I’ve had 5 dates with a man, so far so good. We were intimate after date 5 when he came back to mine. He was obviously drunk last night and we were messaging back and forth.

He said ‘do you know what I can’t wait to do to you next time’. I obviously replied to ask what. To which the reply was ‘tongue punch your fart box’

My friends were not lying when they said dating isn’t for the faint hearted😷

Would you also be grossed out, or see it is a compliment? Which is what he said when I challenged!

Wouldn’t be an instant block for me but absolutely an instant ick 🤣😭🤣😭🤣😭

True but she’s allowed to say what she likes and doesn’t like. She’s not judging per se.

I told my boyfriend (after more than 5 dates) that I wasn’t into anal just in case he wanted it. We hadn’t had sex then, it was after 3 months. Which is long for me. I’ve been lucky, no dick pics and just flirty texts. It’s refreshing.

Mainstream? Who the fuck are you dating?! Utterly disgusting!

If a guy even suggested this to me I don’t think I could see him again.

OP it would be a hard no from me. Block him. There’s a reason these men are single.

Not mainstream in my world either. My ex many years ago rimmed me in a hotel in Copenhagen, I didn’t enjoy it one little bit.

it is absolutely mainstream and practised by many people

My thoughts exactly! Hope that you didn’t kiss him OP 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

And you have kissed that fucker?
🤮🤮.

Maybe in your world. I’ve dated a lot of men and nobody has ever suggested this to me! If they did they’d be out the door instantly with a bundle of clothes in their arms!

It reminds me of that guy from Married At First Sight. He said to his wife on the show he wished he’d been able to “terrorise her bum hole” before they’d ended it. She wasn’t impressed either.

If you say so.

The phrasing did make me laugh but it’s not in the slightest bit sexy 🤣 People do do such things but that’s not the way to broach it.

Why? Why?!

Back in the 90s I worked in a chatline for a year and that was the kind of language some men used. However we did not know these men and it was not personal. This man has been dating you and even after my experience of robust language I would not wish to see him again. However I would be tempted to tell him why it was not going to work out with me.

Not just me, then.

Nice…

I really need to know what the next text was after that bon mot!

That would make me laugh and then block

Not old just not in the way of poking your tongue where it don't belong.
I'm old as well ,also not a tongue poker.

What sort of imbecile refers to a woman’s vagina as a fart box. And to the woman herself. He’s not exactly classy or intelligent is he op. Throw it back, literally every woman deserves better than this and can do better than some low rent wanna be inbetweener.

chris edited to add is if your arse? I also don’t know what rhe fuck he meant,😂

The poster I replied to was definitely judging! She said she didn't want to interact with people who do this in their private lives. Never mind that it's very common for gay men to enjoy which makes her not only judgemental but accidentally homophobic!

He's talking about rimming.

Yikes i belatedly thought that, Christ, it gets worse.

Immediate block. He has zero respect for women. I'd feel physically ill reading that.