To find this an utterly crass term to send someone you are dating

[Datingagain25]

I’ve had 5 dates with a man, so far so good. We were intimate after date 5 when he came back to mine. He was obviously drunk last night and we were messaging back and forth.

He said ‘do you know what I can’t wait to do to you next time’. I obviously replied to ask what. To which the reply was ‘tongue punch your fart box’

My friends were not lying when they said dating isn’t for the faint hearted😷

Would you also be grossed out, or see it is a compliment? Which is what he said when I challenged!

I could never be intimate with a man who uses that kind of puerile language. What happened to the art of seduction?
Throw him back and find a grown up.

Why are they obsessed with arses in this way? No respect for hygiene, boak.

Oh grim and also 'can't wait to do to you ' like it's a given you're going to let him do it. What a twat.

Dates have been great and he has been a gentleman! Which is why I was shocked at this

Someone asked how I knew he was drunk, well he left his site mid-afternoon and they went to the pub and he was still drinking a few hours later, updating me on how much he’d had. Which was quite a bit!

Or you could have one final date, spending time getting prepared by eating lots of baked beans, cabbage and prunes....... 😈

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Brilliant.

I can't believe anyone would use an expression like that.

Some pp saying he sounds like a 12 or 13 year old but do even young boys use expressions like that? If they do they presumably grow into men like OP's date and that is extremely concerning.

Nothing like looking at MN on a Saturday morning to bring you face to face with the disgusting reality of how people behave and communicate these days.

.. and they say romance is dead. I couldn’t go anywhere near him again.

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Ha my thinking too!

@Alwaysthesameoldstory it’s porn. He’s seen that and heard it. Possibly so many times that he thinks that’s how people actually behave.

What does that even mean? Ramming your tongue up someone’s arsehole? Why would anyone want to do that? However clean you are there would be bacteria and stuff. I’m so glad I don’t need or want to date.

Is he a Viz character?

A compliment? 😂 I would block there and then, that kind of talk is revolting to me.

Pornsick bloke. Another one. Revolting. Honestly, are there ANY decent men out there?

Dump. And, tell him why, in no uncertain terms.

Compliment?! How? Men will shag absolutely anything. How low is your bar? The ick would be so big I would not be going near him again 🤢

The face I just made reading that comment… and I’m not the one involved with him!
Just no.

As a general rule I’m not into blocking people but that would be an immediate block. And if he couldn’t work out why he’d been blocked, that’s just further clarification he’s a pig.

WTF is wrong with these men?

I wouldn't want to talk to, never mind be intimate with, someone who thought that was acceptable to say. Hideous and disrespectful man. Gross.

Instant ick. Nope, please get in the bin. That would immediately put me off him, there would not be a next time.

What age is this guy? He sounds utterly peurile, it really would turn me off.

And how many other fart boxes has he tongue punched?!?!

That thought would make me run a mile!!

Why do so many men descend to this gutter level when it comes to sex? Fucking no.

Me again. How ON EARTH could you even possibly see his response as a compliment?

Or am I just a prude?

This ‘practice’ has been getting mentioned again and again on here recently, about men wanting to do it in the early stages of dating etc

I just assume it’s the new thing in porn currently, and all these men are jumping on it like women getting excited about barrel jeans or something!