To find this an utterly crass term to send someone you are dating

[Datingagain25]

I’ve had 5 dates with a man, so far so good. We were intimate after date 5 when he came back to mine. He was obviously drunk last night and we were messaging back and forth.

He said ‘do you know what I can’t wait to do to you next time’. I obviously replied to ask what. To which the reply was ‘tongue punch your fart box’

My friends were not lying when they said dating isn’t for the faint hearted😷

Would you also be grossed out, or see it is a compliment? Which is what he said when I challenged!

He sounds like that revolting character Kev in the Ricky Gervais series "Derek".

Such a sneery, predictable reply. “If you don’t get rid IMMEDIATELY you have no standards.”

It smacks of the desperate need to feel superior.

It was a gross thing to say. However I would also find the situation quite funny if he were an all round nice guy who just got drunk and said something so random, stupid and out of character. But I suppose that must mean my bar is in the gutter 😂 it must be exhausting being permanently outraged by everything in life.

I'm not sure that finding this absolutely gross (and compounded by the fact he isn't even embarrassed) equates to 'being permanently outraged by everything' 😂

It’s five dates, and the op is good with it, she’s just said there is a way to ask, so it was the delivery rather than the act. So it’s none of our business what she’s into really.

But when it was texted she sounded a bit shocked. For me, it’d have to be a certain time limit before this was brought up because to me, this isn’t the norm or not in my relationships. Though I agree that some like it.

a few of them hide it. I had dates with a very eligible man (had a trust fund, lots of money, quite good looking). Didn’t lead to anything but over covid he messaged me on FB. And gradually dropped into convo that he liked pegging. Almost exclusively. Had ended his recent marriage as she wasn’t into it. I immediately blocked him!

Tell me you're an insufferable snob without telling me you're an insufferable snob... 🤣

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Could be worse.

He might have wanted to fart your tongue box.

Bin him - totally disrespectful

That’s gross so I would instantly block. Or come back with something equally as foul if he tries to say it’s ‘Bantz.’. Assuming your ‘fart box’ is your arsehole you could tell him you could shit in his cakehole or something.

Horrible. Get rid.

Absolutely vile - please don’t see him again.

A lady’s fartbox is a temple.

Can you tall him that you have a hemorroïd currently obstructing your fart box and if he doesn't mind some leaking from it he can go ahead and tap away all he wants.

He thought he was wild and sexy when he was just crude and revolting.

Vile. Their should be some warnings about deviant preferences upfront so noone loses threir time (or appetite). Like little images next to profile of pegs, womens clothing, pornaddiction/any addiction really, s/m, potential cocklodger... hearing of all these shite men I might just keep dh who is far from perfect but very normal atleast.

I want a sexy man who I want to be able to rely on.

Not a boy I have to teach how to act like an adult.

Dump that childish teenage man.
Scratch that, nobody even spoke like thst as a teenager.

Absolutely disgusting. I could not get past that. Get rid and block.

There are many more types of 'site' than building sites. Being a hideous snob is no better than being a crass oaf. Both tell on themselves quite quickly.

Absolutely vile

DH and I say this to each other on a daily basis 😂😂

Honestly I agree with you!

Oh and he swore blind he was straight. Really?!