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[lupido]

Name changed for this one.
Who’s being unreasonable, me or DP?

So he works away all week and back at weekends so we only usually have sex once a week, and it’s quite quick due to having to young children.
I started my period last Friday so no sex last weekend, I’m still bleeding now which is unusual for me.

Hes just said to me “he needs relieving”
which was an instant put off. Told him sorry I’m still bleeding nothing can do. So he asked for anal. Told him no chance.

Now he’s sulking like a child and just gone out to the shop and not even said goodbye.

AIBU just to ignore the man child now? He’s really made me feel pissed off with him

Sorry for the typos wouldn’t let me edit!!

Urgh. Send him back to work and move away while he’s there.

Yuk. YANBU. Asking you for sex of any kind because he needs ‘relief’ is enough to kill it for me.

That's pathetic to request anal. Like as if you would if you're not up for PIV..'Yeah just shove it in love' ?!🤣

He could've tried for a hand job? Nah he should just use his own hand. Silly bastard.

Ffs. Tell him to have a w@nk. Then you'll be justified in calling him the name he clearly deserves.

He could have a wank 🤷‍♀️

There are very very many women on here who consider that unacceptable though.

It has seriously put me off ever wanting sex with him again!!

Uurgh he's gross

That actually made me feel sick. He's disgusting OP.

Tell him that’s what his right hand is for and then tell him to fuck off out of your life. He’s revolting.

I at least thought he'd go for hand job or oral, but straight into anal 😂 yeah let him sulk. I'm sure he manages to masturbate when he's away, he can manage now.

Total ick.

Fucking gross. ick.

He needs relieving? are you a fucking sex slave? fuck off and have a wank; probably next week too because my vagina clamped shut with the ick.

If all he wants is 'relief' can't he just have a wank?

I’d have got my strap on out and said ok darling. Not a problem.

Well, that’s grim. Fwiw, sex on your period can be fun, but if you’re not into it, that’s absolutely your right. And he can’t sod off about relief. He’s a grown up. It won’t kill him.

He's a misogynist.

He doesn't "need relief".

He needs oxygen. Water. Food. Those are physiologic needs that he will die if they're not met.

He won't die if you say no. He won't die if he doesn't masturbate.

He's become awfully entitled to use of your body to the point that if he chooses to not have piv sex with you when you're on your period, he feels should be able to use your anus. You've become a taken for granted convenience and he's become coercive by sulking and leaving when you say no.

He's past unreasonable into pig territory.