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Would you LTB over this?

60 replies

Genxhausted · 06/04/2026 09:26

My husband blew his nose in a tea towel and proceded to wipe the kitchen counters with it. Would I be unreasonable to LTB? He thinks it's reasonable behaviour and cannot see a problem.

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Boundariestime · 06/04/2026 09:28

🤮 this can’t be the only disgusting thing he does?

Genxhausted · 06/04/2026 09:28

Oh no, he is currently picking a large scab on the sofa.

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Bundleflower · 06/04/2026 09:29

That’s minging.

Changingplace · 06/04/2026 09:30

That’s vile, I can only assume he’s like this constantly but you only notice things when you’re there, god knows what he’s up to when you’re not looking!

TittyGajillions · 06/04/2026 09:31

Why does the sofa have a scab?

shhblackbag · 06/04/2026 09:33

My god. Imagine being that disgusting and still expecting a woman to want to be near you.

ArduousAndTedious · 06/04/2026 09:33

This has to be made up!

Iwantabucketofsteam · 06/04/2026 09:34

Is this a joke ?

I can't imagine any normal fully-functioning adult doing this.

Having said that, there is another thread on this site where two 12 y o step kids are leaving boogies all over their room, so maybe they are emulating their father ?!

I can't give you any ideas, but please give me a hint where you are, so I know not to make friends with you. 😒

Boundariestime · 06/04/2026 09:35

Disgusting for no reason.

Genxhausted · 06/04/2026 09:35

ArduousAndTedious · 06/04/2026 09:33

This has to be made up!

Oh, I seriously wish it was! I've put up this post so he can see how the rest of the female world views such behaviour.

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Genxhausted · 06/04/2026 09:37

TittyGajillions · 06/04/2026 09:31

Why does the sofa have a scab?

Picking a large scab on his leg whilst sitting on the sofa.

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Azulejo9 · 06/04/2026 09:39

Yuck. Why do you even need to ask?
I bet he leaves skid marks on his underwear too. Vile human

Rileysp · 06/04/2026 09:40

What is LTB?

Genxhausted · 06/04/2026 09:41

Rileysp · 06/04/2026 09:40

What is LTB?

Leave the bastard.

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SadTimesInFife · 06/04/2026 09:42

Ducks in a row....

MyTrivia · 06/04/2026 09:42

Ewww

Iwantabucketofsteam · 06/04/2026 09:43

Genxhausted · 06/04/2026 09:41

Leave the bastard.

or 'Lose the Bastard'

shhblackbag · 06/04/2026 09:46

And yes, I absolutely would leave. The bar should not be in hell.

ArduousAndTedious · 06/04/2026 09:48

Genxhausted · 06/04/2026 09:35

Oh, I seriously wish it was! I've put up this post so he can see how the rest of the female world views such behaviour.

Well it actually turned my stomach. 🤢 It’s the most vile thing I’ve read in a long time. Hence I thought it just couldn’t be true - no one could possibly be this unhygienic surely!

Yes, you have every right not to live with such a disgusting human.

ManyATrueWord · 06/04/2026 09:55

Jesus Christ! The most basic hygiene rule is that nothing that comes off your body should touch the body of another person. Snot, spit, shit, piss, scabs, hair, nail clippings, blood -; absolutely disgusting to spread any of these things around. Smearing bodily fluids on something like a tea towel is absolutely horrendous..My stomach turns reading the OP.

FaceIt · 06/04/2026 10:00

I wouldn’t want to be anywhere near someone like that 🤮

Ahsheeit · 06/04/2026 10:02

Dirty fucker 🤮

Lurkingandlearning · 06/04/2026 10:03

This stuff can’t be new or has he been hiding his inner scum bag until now. If the latter, what has changed for him to think you’ll put up with his filthy behaviour now? Did you post this before or after packing his bags?

Mansionscoldandgrey · 06/04/2026 10:05

ManyATrueWord · 06/04/2026 09:55

Jesus Christ! The most basic hygiene rule is that nothing that comes off your body should touch the body of another person. Snot, spit, shit, piss, scabs, hair, nail clippings, blood -; absolutely disgusting to spread any of these things around. Smearing bodily fluids on something like a tea towel is absolutely horrendous..My stomach turns reading the OP.

What about jizz?

Genxhausted · 06/04/2026 10:06

Lurkingandlearning · 06/04/2026 10:03

This stuff can’t be new or has he been hiding his inner scum bag until now. If the latter, what has changed for him to think you’ll put up with his filthy behaviour now? Did you post this before or after packing his bags?

😂🤣.
Personal hygiene has been an issue but I don't let him near me unless he is fully abulted and smells fresh as a daisy. Refuse to share a bedroom with him, obviously, so Lord knows what he gets up to in there..

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