So we’ve been going out for about 3 months. I know he’s planning to get me something maybe flowers I’m not sure. Is it ok to just give him a card?? I haven’t a clue what present to get or do women give presents on valentines? It’s been a very long time since I’ve had a partner on V day but I don’t remember ever getting the guy something other than a card . What’s the done thing nowadays can you advise