So embarassing sorry tmi

[Username2026]

Me and partner we’re having you know a good time, a we was doing doggy and it stopped abruptly, he lost his erection and didn’t tell me why for ages.
After me probing he said its cos there was a funny smell and I know what he means.
I have IBS and sometimes for some stupid reason I wipe and wipe and wipe till it’s clean but some how there’s always residue left over it’s like it just seeps through.
I had a shower beforehand so I was all freshly clean , how can I stop this from happening because he is now avoiding me and is so ‘put off’ he is one of these men that think women don’t fart or poo…and periods well don’t even get me started 🙄

but I’m so embarrassed he literally smelt my shitty arse 😭

Reported as I suspect this is our resident poo troll but, if it is genuine, can I suggest a visit to your GP as it is a medical issue.

How old are you?
How long have you been together?
Because if you plan to have children with him, don’t. Find somebody better.

I’d find a grown up to be in a relationship with, not a childish idiot.

This is 100% true 🤦🏻‍♀️😭 I know he’s childish , but that’s not the issue I just wanted to know if anyone had any experience with this kind of issue,…perhaps I didn’t wipe properly I don’t know but I feel mortified

He sounds like a dick, dump him.

But also, if you’re leaking poo after a shower, you should seek medical help, OP.

Do you want to be with a man who thinks women don’t poo or fart and is grossed out by periods? I think that’s the main thing to ruminate on.

have you had children? Plan to have children? Lots of gross stuff can happen as your body changes and recovers and you dont want a partner who is grossed out by normal bodily functions. My partner wouldn’t be fussed if he got a poo wife during sex (although I would). I have damage from having kids and have leaking bladder, endometriosis and PSOS so I have irregular painful heavy periods. I’ve woken him in the night as I’ve flooded the bed from various fluids and he’s just helped me change it and not been grossed out.

we are not young forever. Do you want a man who won’t allow you to age or get sick without being grossed out? Or are you happy about being viewed as a sex object?

You said you had had a shower. So you do know that your were 100% clean.

If you have faecal leakage you need medical help.

Regardless, don't have sex with someone who can't accept you are a whole human with a living body. You're not a doll or a toy. You don't exist purely to titillate.

His attitude sounds awful and the biggest turn off ever.

@Username2026 dump your pathetic other half and go to the GP

Dump him. You need a real man if this is true

He sounds deeply unappealing …that’s the issue

You need a GP appointment and a new partner.

We’ve had kids yeah, we have 3. He is turned off by pregnancy too 🤦🏻‍♀️
I know his attitude is appalling I’ve mentioned it to him before and he just says it’s the way he is , in the 16 years we’ve been together I’ve accidentally let out a few farts infront of him and he’s not come near me for days after 🫣

He wasn’t there for the last 2 births of our children as we couldn’t get child care, but our first , I pooed during pushing and he was disgusted I think.
I have to remind him every now ans then that everyone poos farts etc and that if I didn’t have periods our kids wouldn’t be here.
But yeah, my vagina is obviously just a sexual organ to him. He’s still giving me the cold shoulder , I put on a sexy outfit to bed last night as usually that initiates things but he slept at the end of the bed so I’m just gonna leave him to it 🤷🏻‍♀️