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How do you get over someone cheating?

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Confusedlady600 · 24/01/2026 17:01

Tips, advice or anything to help me process my boyfriend cheating?

My boyfriend cheated on me back in October/November. It was just a kiss but also a lot of flirty messages back and forth between him and another girl.

I have taken him back, he’s apologised a lot. And I think I’m doing fine and then suddenly it hits me that it’s happened. I find myself looking at her Facebook profile, comparing myself to her. I find myself wondering if I’m actually enough or if he’s going to do it again.

I try and speak to him about it but he shuts it down and says there’s nothing to worry about and that he’s sorry.

I don’t know how to move on from this. I love my boyfriend so much. But I find this a very tricky thing to move on from.

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CookingFatCat · 24/01/2026 18:21

Just a kiss. Are you sure?

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