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Why is everything backless, strapless or fucking CUTOUT

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30FlirtyandDrivingmyselftoinsanity · 28/12/2025 09:51

Jesus Christ. All I need is a nice dress for a winter wedding.

everything I love the look of at first glance, ends up being backless, strapless, plunge ir fucking cut out.

I’m a pale, untoned size 14 with 32J tits. I can’t wear any of the above without looking like a raw chicken partaking in bdsm.

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TestingTestingWonTooFree · 28/12/2025 09:52

Online shopping should have a filter for “can you wear a normal bra with it?”

30FlirtyandDrivingmyselftoinsanity · 28/12/2025 09:55

TestingTestingWonTooFree · 28/12/2025 09:52

Online shopping should have a filter for “can you wear a normal bra with it?”

What?! No way! Where do you see that.. that would literally be life changing filter for me 🤣

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enok · 28/12/2025 09:55

Me too!!!

BuffaloCauliflower · 28/12/2025 09:56

Where are you looking? It might be an issue with certain stores.

rainbowunicorn22 · 28/12/2025 09:57

looking for some nice warm jumpers but what the heck is warm about cropped jumpers with big holes in the shoulder/sleeve tops?

blowthedoorsoff · 28/12/2025 10:01

This did make me chuckle but I completely agree.

I am so fed up of seeing gorgeous dresses online, clicking on them, only to then discover a back view photo where they resemble a hospital gown with NO back at all and its all completely open.

Why? and who are these women who can just casually decide that's fine, they just won't wear a bra! Myself and literally every woman I personally know can't just go out braless without looking like we are purposefully flashing people.

Its so bloody annoying

Purlant · 28/12/2025 10:03

Where are you shopping?!!

dammit88 · 28/12/2025 10:03

TestingTestingWonTooFree · 28/12/2025 09:52

Online shopping should have a filter for “can you wear a normal bra with it?”

I love this lol

I actually like backless dresses but not all the time .... can you wear a normal bra should definitely be a filter!

TheChicDreamer · 28/12/2025 10:04

Totally agree. It’s as if the ‘designers’ can’t just design something that’s plain, simple and wearable… that’s too boring and unimaginative. It has to have some stupid detail that renders it ‘sexy’. Drives me mad. I’m menopausal and just want an elegant cut, simplicity and comfort.

30FlirtyandDrivingmyselftoinsanity · 28/12/2025 10:10

TheChicDreamer · 28/12/2025 10:04

Totally agree. It’s as if the ‘designers’ can’t just design something that’s plain, simple and wearable… that’s too boring and unimaginative. It has to have some stupid detail that renders it ‘sexy’. Drives me mad. I’m menopausal and just want an elegant cut, simplicity and comfort.

I’m 29 and I just want classy. I don’t need to be flashing some side boob or a leg slit that would make everyone aware I don’t have time to tame my bush.

Chasing two young children in half of these dressing would get me arrested for indecent exposure.

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