We always do Christmas with my dad and his fiance, dh, dd and sdd...they are good hosts and dd loves it plus mum.is dead so it has been nice to see dad.
This year they invited another couple friend of theirs which is lovely ...but they didn't tell me. Dd told me a week ago.
Luckily the Christmas pudding I bought well in advance feeds us all....
Here is the really weird bit...the couple are immuno compromised and have multiple health conditions...i have a mild cold but dad didn't think it pertinent to warn them...i had to encourage him.as she does get very ill. and smum.had a tantrum about me having a mild sniffle.
To top it off, sdd is coming and has asd..if dd hadnt warned us the extra guests would have sent her into meltdown as she needs prior warning. Dad knows this.
I just find ot odd that they didn't think to communicate with ys re other guestx so we could plan for it ..im sure it will be lovely( but i do fing the lady quite nosy...has been in the past re my personal life).