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Paying the plumber - AIBU?

162 replies

Hanhan22 · 23/12/2025 15:25

We had work done to fix a leak on Friday. Plumber we have used before. He asked we pay within 10 days as is normal (we’ve always paid promptly in the past though).

We thought, great, as we are a bit tight with coats due to Christmas and DH not paid until today. Anyway, Saturday the plumber texts and asks if we can pay any earlier - we apologise and say we can’t until today as waiting for payday. He texts again yesterday to ask again incase our circumstances have changed, we again said no (politely).

We’ve paid this morning and text to confirm which he has read and not replied.

AIBU to feel he was a CF? If you don’t want a delay in payment, then don’t give 10 days for it!

Edit - obviously the title is meant to say ‘Paying’ if someone can change it please. No idea what happened there

[Title edited by MNHQ]

OP posts:
Poms · 23/12/2025 15:26

Pegging? I don’t really understand what you mean.

catgirl1976 · 23/12/2025 15:27

This thread is not about what I thought it was going to be about.

Thankfully

Brightbluesomething · 23/12/2025 15:27

Completely unreasonable to ask a contractor to do a job you can’t pay for straight away.
But what has it got to do with pegging? I thought this would be a very different thread.

HelenaWaiting · 23/12/2025 15:28

Well, I must say, given your thread title, the content of your post was not what I expected. You are massively unreasonable btw. He did the work. Pay him. He probably needs it for Christmas.

Blueuggboots · 23/12/2025 15:28

I really don’t think you mean pegging?!!!

Paying the plumber - AIBU?
Poms · 23/12/2025 15:28

Me too. I thought she might be paying the plumber in sexual favours.

dementedpixie · 23/12/2025 15:28

I thought this was going to be about something quite different!

Givemeachaitealatte · 23/12/2025 15:29

I'm thoroughly disappointed in the content of this OP.

justthecat · 23/12/2025 15:29

I’d of expected a domestic plumber to expect paying on completion of the job

Hanhan22 · 23/12/2025 15:29

Yes, obviously the title is wrong and I’ve edited the post 🙄

OP posts:
SurnameFirstnameMiddlename · 23/12/2025 15:30

catgirl1976 · 23/12/2025 15:27

This thread is not about what I thought it was going to be about.

Thankfully

I only opened the thread for this reason if I’m honest. Grin

HelenaWaiting · 23/12/2025 15:30

Hanhan22 · 23/12/2025 15:29

Yes, obviously the title is wrong and I’ve edited the post 🙄

I don't think that's going to get you off the hook, OP 🤣

RealEagle · 23/12/2025 15:31

I thought the plumber wanted pegging instead of payment😂

TheRozzers · 23/12/2025 15:31

Best typo ever 😂😂😂

Poms · 23/12/2025 15:32

How did you even type pegging, it’s not something autocorrect would change?

justpassmethemouse · 23/12/2025 15:33

I’d say YANBU. If the payment terms were within 10 days then he shouldn’t be pressuring you for faster payment.

MandemChickenShop · 23/12/2025 15:33

Get out of those tight coats and peg like a good 'un. Make sure you use his extra large plunger....

TheHungryHungryLandsharks · 23/12/2025 15:34

This is not what I thought it was about. I was expecting a 50 Shades of Grey style romance.

I'm strangely disappointed as this had the makings of a classic thread. Sigh.

BauhausOfEliott · 23/12/2025 15:34

Poms · 23/12/2025 15:26

Pegging? I don’t really understand what you mean.

You should Google it. Ideally at work.

Makemeanonymous · 23/12/2025 15:35

@Hanhan22
If you haven't done so already report your OP to MN and ask them to change the thread title.

Quicklyquicklyquicker · 23/12/2025 15:36

That’s given me a laugh today! Pegging the plumber 🤣🤣🤣

wizzler · 23/12/2025 15:36

Got halfway through the post and thought you must be planning to pay him in kind

Lennonjingles · 23/12/2025 15:37

I’ve learned something today I wish I hadn’t, will never look at pegs again in the same light.

Elbowpatch · 23/12/2025 15:39

I assumed it was an alliterative euphemism. Like bashing the bishop.

Clefable · 23/12/2025 15:40

Title aside…

He shouldn’t say 10 days if he doesn’t want to wait 10 days. But I also wouldn’t get work done if I couldn’t afford to pay it when the work was completed.

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