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Closing curtains when going out for the day

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ZappyDays · 23/12/2025 13:47

Please can you help settle a debate with my DH.

It is 1:30pm and we are going out for the day, we won’t be back until after dark.

One of us decided it would be a good idea to close all the curtains in the house before we go out, even though it’s daytime, because it will be dark when we get back and save a job later. The other thinks it’s a bit odd to shut the curtains while it’s still daytime and we can just do it when we get back.

YANBU it’s a sensible thing to close them before you go out
YABU it’s strange, just close them when you get back later

OP posts:
ZappyDays · 23/12/2025 21:38

I must admit when we got home this evening I was glad to have one less job to do and it was very cosy! He wins.

OP posts:
TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 23/12/2025 21:43

Just close one of each pair of curtains then everybody will be happy. 👍

MarxistMags · 23/12/2025 21:46

I close bedroom curtains and pull the downstairs ones closer together. I'm keeping the heat in 🙄

curious79 · 23/12/2025 21:49

This is not die in any kind of ditch worthy

SillyNavyTiger · 23/12/2025 21:55

ZappyDays · 23/12/2025 21:38

I must admit when we got home this evening I was glad to have one less job to do and it was very cosy! He wins.

If you have a farm and more chores than I can think about, I'd understand about the "one less job" , but a bog standard house and easy life?

I am bit puzzled by the hardship of having to deal with curtains.

Imagine living on the continent where they have curtains AND shutters 😂

Iwouldntsaythat · 23/12/2025 21:58

SpanielsGalore · 23/12/2025 14:00

I have dogs. If I am going to be coming home after dark, I close the curtains and put the light on for them.
If I didn't have dogs, I'd just draw them when I got home.

ETA: I only close the downstairs ones. Not bedrooms.

Edited

You put the lights on for your dogs? Sorry, that’s just plain bonkers

deeahgwitch · 23/12/2025 22:10

TinselTitts · 23/12/2025 16:51

I think you both need to pull yourselves together.

😂👏🏻

SpanielsGalore · 23/12/2025 22:34

Iwouldntsaythat · 23/12/2025 21:58

You put the lights on for your dogs? Sorry, that’s just plain bonkers

Why is it? They don't like being left in the dark. I also leave music playing for them.

Iwouldntsaythat · 23/12/2025 23:20

SpanielsGalore · 23/12/2025 22:34

Why is it? They don't like being left in the dark. I also leave music playing for them.

How do you know what type of music they like?

SillyNavyTiger · 23/12/2025 23:35

Iwouldntsaythat · 23/12/2025 21:58

You put the lights on for your dogs? Sorry, that’s just plain bonkers

why? I do it too.

Light on during the day, house dark at night. Most people do!

Westfacing · 24/12/2025 06:55

TinselTitts · 23/12/2025 16:51

I think you both need to pull yourselves together.

😂🎄

Bryonyberries · 24/12/2025 08:10

I light my house to see daylight so I’m a curtain open person.

Fuckoffeasypeelers · 24/12/2025 08:21

Ohpleeeease · 23/12/2025 13:54

I would close the curtains before going out, open curtains in a dark house tells everyone you’re out.

Closed curtains in the day time tells everyone you are out!
I cant think why people do it,so obvious
Curtains open and lights on
We have Tapo so I turn them on at dusk

SpanielsGalore · 24/12/2025 10:13

Iwouldntsaythat · 23/12/2025 23:20

How do you know what type of music they like?

They tell me of course. 🙄

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