Lots of posts " I hate Christmas", "I'm run off my feet after ungrateful/ unhelpful people but it's Tradition".
If you come from a religion,culture, country which does not have Christmas - say Eid or Hannukah, Diwali etc etc do you feel a great pressure to follow tradition or expectations to the detrimental of your happiness or inner calm?
Yabu. - nope all fine here, it must be "Christmas"
Yanbu- yes it's as demanding and there are just as many problems in x.