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College did not inform me

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Thedandyanddude · 05/12/2025 23:56

My daughter has just informed me that a fellow student has threatened to smash her face in. She had to write a statement over this. Since then she's been made to work in a group with him.

Am I unreasonable to think I should have been informed about this?

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Andromed1 · 05/12/2025 23:57

Ouch! How old is your daughter OP?

Thedandyanddude · 05/12/2025 23:57

Andromed1 · 05/12/2025 23:57

Ouch! How old is your daughter OP?

16

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TheSandgroper · 06/12/2025 00:54

Yes, you should have been informed. I would raise merry hell over this. But only after I had read all their policies very, very carefully. Where is the duty of care? What is their plan for her safety? Once again, a girl has to swallow her own feelings for the sake of a boy.

BilboBogginsAndHisNoggins · 06/12/2025 00:59

Yes, your daughter should have informed you.

Carycach4 · 06/12/2025 01:06

I assume your dd is 16+ in which case i dont think they should be sharing anything without her
consent

CherrieTomaties · 06/12/2025 01:14

Was the tutor/teacher who arranged the groups aware of the threat?

Happyjoe · 06/12/2025 01:17

CherrieTomaties · 06/12/2025 01:14

Was the tutor/teacher who arranged the groups aware of the threat?

Imo - they should be. Something as serious as this it should be their job to be aware?

Thatcannotberight · 06/12/2025 01:19

FE college? In my experience they don't communicate with parents at all.

Thedandyanddude · 06/12/2025 01:30

BilboBogginsAndHisNoggins · 06/12/2025 00:59

Yes, your daughter should have informed you.

She did inform me.

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Thedandyanddude · 06/12/2025 01:31

Carycach4 · 06/12/2025 01:06

I assume your dd is 16+ in which case i dont think they should be sharing anything without her
consent

She did consent. I've looked it up they still have to tell aren't when under 18.

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