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Is this ocd

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Daisychain88 · 04/12/2025 19:17

Little things about my husband tend to really bother me.
For example he puts his phone in between his shorts and boxers ( if that makes sense) if he doesnt have a pocket.

Today I noticed his shorts were inside out and then he put them on the right way in the eve which grosses me out because his underwear has touched that part.
These are just some of the things that make me want to vomit tbh. Gives me a nauseous feeling. & when I address it he gets so angry.
Can someone tell me if I'm being unreasonable?

OP posts:
KilkennyCats · 07/12/2025 18:58

Daisychain88 · 07/12/2025 18:24

He isn't supportive. It triggers me. The other week we had an argument (not ocd related) his response was to get the things I 'deem contaminated " or something that could trigger me and chuck it all over the room. Luckily I never had a complete breakdown l. But I never spoke to him for 3 weeks after that.
He is fed up but for him to trigger me it's something else. I noticed my ocd got even worse after this event.

Why not get some help for your OCD?
Bear in mind, though, exposure therapy is the recommended route…

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