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AIBU?

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To grey rock my work colleague

5 replies

Hadenoughcolleague · 02/12/2025 18:39

I’ve had enough of a colleague I’ve worked with for the past 3 years. Constant little snipes which she vaguely disguises in clever ways to not appear rude (meaning no discourse in terms of complaints).

Examples from the past couple of weeks:

-It’s good I’ve lost weight on the jab and my husband must be pleased that the effort he puts in at the gym is ‘matched’ so he must be reaping the rewards

-X brand name (coat I wear usually) is so unfashionable now and she doesn’t think they make new versions any more

-She has warned a friend off living in my village as it has a really bad rep now (it doesnt)

Our work is not massively connected - so my question is, AIBU to grey rock her?

OP posts:
FuzzyWolf · 02/12/2025 18:41

I think the only thing you are BU about is to have not ignored her sooner!

SaintlyLady · 02/12/2025 19:07

ive been through the exact same OP and my own regret is that I didn’t great rock sooner !

SummerInSun · 02/12/2025 19:09

Of course you should. And enjoy watching her go crazy when you say “that’s nice dear” and she finds that she’s not getting to you.

BettyBobble · 02/12/2025 19:30

Sounds like a twat. Grey rock that bitch

Endofyear · 02/12/2025 22:31

I think I'd probably laugh at her, she sounds ridiculous 🤣

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