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Gynae operation? Due back at work

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TheOpalFox · 26/11/2025 15:32

I had a small gynae operation last week
I had a week off but I’m due back Monday shall I go back or have another week off? Especially if I’m not right yet? Thanks

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Rattymare · 26/11/2025 15:35

Don't go back if you're not ready.
It can take time to heal inside.

Isobel201 · 26/11/2025 16:08

Depends on how you're feeling, if you don't feel right, request another week.

MatildaTheCat · 26/11/2025 16:13

If you are feeling unwell enough to not work then you’ll need a certificate from your doctor after the first week. Nobody here can answer based on the information you have given.

lemonwrighty · 26/11/2025 16:14

I’ve had 2 gynae surgeries, first surgery I didn’t go back to work for 2 weeks, it was recommended by the hospital i take at least a week off. The second surgery I went back to work after 3 days, it was recommended I take a week off but I felt fine within myself and I was up and about.
Take the minimum recommended by the hospital, if you don’t feel fully recovered take more time off.
Speedy recovery to you.

CleanSkin · 26/11/2025 16:34

Don’t go back until you feel well, and confident that the activities you engage in won’t worsen any post-op symptoms - particularly important to avoid heavy lifting, for example.

FinallyMovingHouse · 26/11/2025 16:35

What did the surgeon advise was the recovery period for the op?

ghostiewhisp · 26/11/2025 16:42

See how you feel
the hospital wanted to sign me off for 8 weeks but I asked for 2 weeks, then I ended up extending for another week

Onemorestepalongtheroad · 26/11/2025 16:45

I had a gynea op recently and thought a week would be enough but ended up taking two. I could probably have got through it if I’d gone back but I still felt pretty rubbish. Better to take weeks and go back feeling properly well.

HoskinsChoice · 26/11/2025 18:51

What do you mean 'especially if I'm not right'? Do you mean you might not go back even if you are ok?

TheOpalFox · 27/11/2025 15:03

HoskinsChoice · 26/11/2025 18:51

What do you mean 'especially if I'm not right'? Do you mean you might not go back even if you are ok?

I
will
go back I love my job, I just don’t feel right yet it feels strange

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TheOpalFox · 27/11/2025 15:04

FinallyMovingHouse · 26/11/2025 16:35

What did the surgeon advise was the recovery period for the op?

He came to sss ne in recovery and I was too high on pain relief to remember what he said 🫢

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TealScroller · 27/11/2025 18:55

I'd take the time off, don't go back until you feel 100%. In fact, take even longer if you need to.

mamagogo1 · 27/11/2025 19:05

Depends on the surgery and how you have recovered plus of course your job. I went straight to work after having day surgery under local (my choice as didn’t want anything stronger, only took 5 minutes. But other surgeries require 6 weeks recovery

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