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Repost edited Is he cheating ??

28 replies

Missy0901 · 22/11/2025 02:21

Hello so my boyfriend has a few female work colleagues I have suspicions as he can be very over friendly due to being bought up by his mum and sister
one work colleague asked him personal question like when do u go here there
do you smoke etc not ok and she also makes effort to be in same room basically I feel as a woman that is her trying
also the other woman there told him where she lives and said it near him
I said how she know where u live he said I didn’t tell her I said opposite the park so yeah basically telling her
she messaged him on WhatsApp outside the work group asking him to come in early all laughing faces and lol
he told me a lie he said diff and said he only replied no
he kept asking me to look at the messages
when I did he had replied with lol back and said I’m am the gym I said u don’t need to explain to her
she also said I bet u saved me as a middle finger on ur phone
to me that is her interested if he saved her
he said he wanted to say to her no ur a work colleague I don’t need to save u
but told me he can’t do that she could report him

he also was talking to a male colleague after an argument with us and said she must of heard me saying my gf thinks I’m a player
to then she said to my bf
I will call u when ur with ur gf next

now come on
she has a bf n kids he picks her up from work
my bf gets on with him
he told me other day he came in shop
and made sure she couldn’t hear and

said to my bf I think she talking to someone else or seeing someone else
I said well he asking you for a reason
he said no if she messages me anything like that he would tell her bf straight away
he said his loyalty lies with him
I just want opinions on if she done wrong
has my bf?
her bf said this to my bf after she messaged

also my bf said they aren’t alllwed to message out of work chat it was about work so why she do it?
he said people don’t want there phones going off

also he defends her to the ground when I question and once said he calls her mckenzie !!!!!! N

OP posts:
Ponoka7 · 22/11/2025 19:40

OP are you from a culture different to England? I have friends from across Africa and it isn't always the norm to be friendly with the opposite sex. Also one or two are very private, because of cultural norms, so usual British chatting seems strange to them.

slashlover · 22/11/2025 20:28

My colleagues know where I live and have given me a run home sometimes. I have some of them (male and female) on Facebook, including from previous workplaces.

What is the McKenzie thing OP?

slashlover · 22/11/2025 20:31

Do you work OP? These are 100% normal interactions, colleagues discuss their lives with each other. I can spend almost 1/4 of my week with these people.

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