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Party bag 12 yo DS AIBU

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Countrylifemama · 14/11/2025 21:14

hi son is having 5 friends over for some gaming and movie night
i I have bought Nike crew socks and large sweet cone and mini card games to put in as party bag for his friends. I also bought Christmas socks as wasn’t sure to swap Nike socks for those
DH is saying the kids won’t really like socks and to give just sweet cones and card game
is giving socks as party bag filled a silly idea?

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FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 14/11/2025 21:15

Mine is 14 and would love the Nike socks.

goldeline · 14/11/2025 21:15

My 12yo would love Nike socks, and I would love you for getting him some as he's always losing the ones he has

Londonrach1 · 14/11/2025 21:16

Nike is a thing for teenagers so think they love it

Crunched · 14/11/2025 21:17

Sounds perfect!

Booooooom · 14/11/2025 21:17

My son's had Christmas socks in a party bag before and liked them - at a younger age though, maybe 9, if that makes a difference

User5306921 · 14/11/2025 21:17

I think the Nike socks is a great idea!!! My teen would love them although probably wouldn't be as interested in the Xmas socks anymore.

Obeseandashamed · 14/11/2025 21:19

I’m a sucker for party bags as I love thoughtful touches and gifting. I also have a child of a similar age. I put Nike crew socks, Nike dunk keyring, playing cards in a plastic travel case with a personalised sticker on them . I also gave them all personalised go karting balaclavas as they were going karting. They were well received & the kids thought it was pretty cool. Your party bags sound great and you’ll definitely be a ‘cool mum’. Happy birthday to your son.

BauhausOfEliott · 14/11/2025 21:29

Nike socks yes, Christmas socks no.

GoogolB · 14/11/2025 21:31

YABU for doing party bags for 12yos!

Larryfell · 14/11/2025 21:35

Do the socks! My 14 year old and his mates would move either novelty socks or Nike ones

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 23:01

I think that's very generous of you to provide party bags for 12 year olds. They will be glad with a pair of socks

TartanMammy · 14/11/2025 23:03

I wouldn't do party bags for 12 year olds, but Nike socks are a great idea.

Arlanymor · 14/11/2025 23:06

12 year olds get party bags? I think your idea is lovely, but everyone I know stopped when they left primary school. (That's not a criticism to be clear).

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