AIBU or is he ?

[motmilk7]

Not feeling well today, I’ve had blood tests which have come back low iron and other issues. I got up at 5.30 with our youngest but fell asleep on the sofa when she went back to sleep, other kids get up and our 2 year old is quite a monkey likes to scream and can be quite naughty, he kept screaming and jumping on me so I said to dp “ can’t you take him to play in the garden for a little while so baby and me can get the sleep we ( I ) desperately need “ ds absolutely loves playing in his car and loves being outside.
he then takes ds to get ready and I hear him say to ds “ we have to go out because of you “ that was like ouch I don’t agree with him saying it to ds and think he’s being unreasonable he says it’s fine, last week he told ds “ stop crying like a little girl “

You’re both BU, why didn’t you go up to bed?

You need to tell DP not to talk to him like that and nip it in the bud immediately.

Way to make the kid feel unwanted, you need to tell your partner to pack that shit in immediately.

You are both unreasonable, sleep upstairs, don’t send your kid out side because he’s making noise. Partner obviously needs to stop speaking to his kid like shit. Both of you need to remember that your 2 year old isn’t ‘naughty’ or a ‘monkey’, they are a child you’ve created and is acting totally normally for his age