To be wound up about this ?

[Windmill34]

Dp has appointment at hospital @ 2.30, we’ve got outside just now and no disabled parking available (my card)
Theres NO side st to park in around it only about 15/20 mins walk away.
He has 12 mins before his appointment so I said
let me drive car to a space or wait outside and move if have too.
No , he said you go and sit down inside
I will drive to space and RUN back !!!
all this so I don’t have to drive his car ffs
ive been driving 50 yrs
im fuming that he doesn’t trust me, I said I may off well stayed at home and done something
to wish he said, I didn’t want you to come in the first place !
He will be as stressed as F…. When he gets back here , so I’ll have to keep my mouth closed

what a waste off my time

How ridiculous! Why doesn't he want you to drive his car?
If he misses his appointment that's on him. What's the point of you going in and waiting, you can't attend it for him. I'd probably try and take public transport or a taxi home and leave him to stew.

Well he made it back in time for appointment
never said anything between us
I feel so wound up now because of HIM

Ge won’t let me drive it because I caught it one time on the gate backing into the drive in the dark !
Thing is though he has also caught my car, but did I act like this NO
he has a thing about his precession massively, can’t understand it I go as far as saying I’d have to do it in secret if I used something of his.
yet he helps himself to mine (which I don’t mind) seem he thinks it’s ok to take but doesn’t give back
aghhh need to calm down

He needs to plan for this in future. You can’t arrive at your appointment time and expect to get parked.

Have I misunderstood? You have a disabled badge so he's dropping you off close to the venue?

So you aren't allowed to use any of his things but he helps himself to yours?

I absolutely wouldnt be allowing that. What’s sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.

It’s my blue badge , it was his appointment but asked was I coming with him so we could park on the hospital grounds

I won’t be F..,.., going again that’s for sure

its building up inside me and I’m ready for him
mark my word.
Never does he take anything of mine again as soft as I am , I believe in sharing

Yeah. Next time tell him to bleep off and drive himself, sans blue badge.

We have one car. I do 75% of the long distance driving, he drives more locally when we’re together.

I look forward to what your “H” says once you’ve let him have it. Go you 💐