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divorcinganabsolutewanker · 28/10/2025 14:06

Hi,

So ex husband lives in UK, I don't.

He has started divorce.

3 kids, maintenance order in place since, never paid.

Shared mortgage up until this year but is now in the process of being sold to the council, either that or it will be repossessed.

He is pushing for me to complete a financial agreement that has been pulled from the internet.

He has noted that we each have the same salary which cracks me up as we don't.

He is a high earner, much higher than me. Director of a practice.

Huge pension.

Has anyone experience of this?

I'm under pressure as he he wants this signed or will pull out of the agreement to sell house to council.

It's such a tricky situation legal advice seems to be different from everyone I've spoken to.

OP posts:
Skybluepinky · 28/10/2025 15:01

Go to the best solicitor as although it’ll cost more you will get what you should, skimp and you won’t.

divorcinganabsolutewanker · 28/10/2025 15:34

Skybluepinky · 28/10/2025 15:01

Go to the best solicitor as although it’ll cost more you will get what you should, skimp and you won’t.

I won't get anything, he'll have hidden every penny.

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Elsvieta · 28/10/2025 19:03

Whatever you do, don't sign. Get your own legal advice.

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