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Aibu husband cheatin

7 replies

blueskiesgalore · 19/10/2025 04:37

New born baby, dh rarely goes out big coke taker and out tonight. He will cheat!??? No wedding band tonight either

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blueskiesgalore · 19/10/2025 04:42

Anyone

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Amba1998 · 19/10/2025 04:45

No one is going to be able to answer that. We are not psychic and we don’t know him

However bigger issues for me - you have a new born baby and he’s a “big” drug taker?

why has he taken his wedding band off? My husband never had one which is fine by me (he pointless with his occupation) but to wear one and actively take it off before a night out is a red flag.

Has he got form for cheating?

FreyjaOfTheNorth · 19/10/2025 06:05

Why would you have a child with a “big coke user”?

Two weeks ago you said he had moved out. Did you take him back? Why?

Ponoka7 · 19/10/2025 06:14

Have some respect for your child and get them out of this mess of a relationship. He doesn't want the marriage. It's a shit show and don't you think your child deserves better?

heartsinvisiblefury · 19/10/2025 06:55

He hardly sounds like the catch of the century

YodasHairyButt · 19/10/2025 07:13

What are you asking? What to do about the cheating drug addict you’ve just had a baby with? You know the answer to that.

TattooStan · 19/10/2025 07:19

Obviously the horse has already bolted, but why on earth have you had a baby with a "big coke taker".
Yes, if he's big into coke, it's highly likely he cheats on you.
I'd make sure you build some savings behind you as a future escape fund, if you dont have that in place already.

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