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That this grates on me?

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Ribenafan98 · 09/10/2025 23:39

My next door neighbour always dumps her glass and bottles nearly every night at this time. If im asleep then it wakes me up. Why would you choose to make a massive loud crashing noise with all your glass bottles etc every time you do it to be nearly midnight when most people are asleep???

OP posts:
MousseMousse · 09/10/2025 23:44

Ask her politely do it another time? She probably just doesn't realise

UnderMedicatedMum · 10/10/2025 00:05

Have you tried talking to her?

ninjahamster · 10/10/2025 00:05

She’s a drinker and therefore doesn’t think about it?

XenoBitch · 10/10/2025 00:08

If it the same time each day, then there will be a reason. She might be at work etc.
It is a one off loud noise.

WalkingTheMiddlePath · 10/10/2025 00:19

Oops. I think I'm your neighbour . I'm sorry . I won't do it anymore . This thread has made me think maybe I'm being too loud at night . Thanks for posting Op. I will try be more considerate.

Leeds2 · 10/10/2025 00:20

She probably doesn't realise.

CoffeeCantata · 10/10/2025 07:39

A poor friend of mine suffered from really horrendous tinnitus (he almost had a breakdown over it) and it was regularly set off by exactly this: clinking bottles in recycling either late or early when the noise stood out against the silence.

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