My friend was having her house renovated and had was going to be without her washing machine for 2 weeks and I offered her the use of my machine. Due to a last minute mix up, she left her laundry at my house. I was away so asked DH to put the laundry in the machine and he said he would. When I returned, he hadn't cleaned anything, and when I asked him why, I told to go f myself. He accused me of all manner of things; it came out of know where. I have asked him to help my friends out in the past and has agreed but he now claims he didn't only to avoid have to deal with my bullshit.
Its been a month and he has refused to do anything around the house. If I answer back, he'll just start shouting so I leave things as they are.
I haven't spoken to a solicitor yet but we have lent my family fairly vasts sums of money and I'm worried these will be counted as joint assests from which he can demand repayment.
I am desperately seeking a job, but having been a SAHM for 12 years, it's providing difficult.
My sister has said I need to apologise to him because it's not his job to clean my friends washing but it was a minor ask