Please help me find a pillow 🙏

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I have spent so much money on pillows, the house is full of them and I can't find the perfect one.
I am a side sleeper. I need a firm pillow that doesn't sink when I lie on it.
I've tried premier inn firm, they were the right height but to soft and my head sunk to much.
I've tried Reylon latex, felt like I was on a balloon, too bouncy
Buckwheat pillow, like lying on a bag of sand.
Lots of silent night, tesco, dunelm type ones all no good.
I wake up with a sore neck and shoulders.
Please please help me!!!

Tempur

Groove Pillows. It takes getting used to but once you do it’s amazing. I’m a side sleeper too and have back issues and got severe neck pain. This sorted it. You might dislike the texture and style at first but stick with it. Once you’re used to it it really does fix the painful issues.

Is it the cloud one?

A good quality contour, memory foam pillow. One that has two different height sides, that is firm enough to provide support. You can get adjustable ones, too. It doesn't h5to be ridiculously expensive, either.

I dislike Tempura though. I'm petite and it feels like sleeping on rock.

Tempur cloud

Have you tried the simba ones with the blocks you can adjust the height/firmness?

Wool pillows from the Woolroom. You can adjust the filling to suit you.

I looked at these, are they very soft?

No but I have one in my amazon basket!

Tempur.
Go to a big store such as Dreams to try them before purchasing.

Any latex pillow. Make sure it’s full latex and not just latex core. They are amazing. I take my pillow with my whenever I sleep anywhere else!

Dunlopillow - the full latex ones.

Is reylon the same as Dunlopillow?

Tempur cloud amazing had mine 5 years and still going strong

I have this and love it. DH then wanted one after trying mine and loves it too.

No. They off firm (which is why we bought them). You then adjust the firmness to suit by adding and removing filling.