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To the flag flyers

34 replies

AutumnalLight · 09/09/2025 16:22

Let me tell you about a guy named Amir…

Amir fled Syria after his home was bombed and several family members were killed. He didn’t come to the UK for handouts — he came to survive. He arrived in the UK through the government’s refugee resettlement scheme with barely anything. No English, no money — just his life.
His first job? Cleaning tables at a café in Leeds. He worked 6 days a week, took evening English classes, and volunteered at a local food bank just to feel useful.

Fast forward a few years — Amir now runs a small catering business with his wife. They specialise in Syrian street food, and it’s actually doing really well. He employs 10 people — all locals — and he gives free meals to NHS staff on Fridays as a thank-you to the country that took him in.

The most British thing about Amir? He watches Match of the Day religiously and complains about the rain more than anyone I know.

Look, I get it — people worry about immigration, jobs, safety. But most refugees like Amir aren’t a threat. They’re people who’ve lost everything and just want to build a life — and when they’re given the chance, they often give back far more than they take.
Isn’t that the kind of country we want to be — one that offers safety, but also benefits from the talents and hard work of those who come here?

If your family had to flee war, wouldn’t you want another country to treat them with basic decency?

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GrouachMacbeth · 09/09/2025 19:33

If the left were willing to show the flag, fly the flag, take back the flag earlier we would not be having it in the hands of the jelly belly flag drapers (Rudyard Kipling ---- ooooh a rathist).
But no, the left shat themselves and ran. Billy Bragg said in the 80s that the left surrendered the flag - he might not be correct on everything but he was right on this. Take back the flag. Fly it from mosques, from kebab shops.

ainsleysanob · 09/09/2025 20:35

Oh for the love of Jesus and his disciples.

AutumnalLight · 09/09/2025 22:39

hamstersarse · 09/09/2025 18:32

You need to have a word with yourself

Your naivity puts women and children at risk

DFOD

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AutumnalLight · 09/09/2025 22:41

scatterolight · 09/09/2025 17:02

Oh no, a heart tugging story about an immigrant. We must ensure we allow endless infinity immigration so your friend doesn't feel sad.

Were you a bully at school dear?

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NotMyNigelFarage · 09/09/2025 22:45

They are busy murdering one woman every 3 days - but mostly those are the ones we live with or are related to 🤷🏻‍♀️

Sounds like they're slacking a bit. Middle eastern immigrants managed to sexually assault 1200 German women in one night.

Confused3456 · 10/09/2025 07:27

I have thought this for a while now; the reason we need controlled immigration is for people like Amir.

There are genuine people that really need our help, the numbers of those people are being diluted by huge numbers of economic migrants who do not genuinely need our help. This means we are helping the genuine people much slower than we would like to.

So anything we can do to dissuade economic migrants who come in illegally so that we have more opportunity to help genuine people the better in my view.

Controlled Immigration is our way of offering timely help and compassion in people’s time of need for those that really need it.

MeandT · 10/09/2025 18:46

AutumnalLight · 09/09/2025 16:45

So do you think we should kick ALL men out then in that case @hamstersarse- they are busy murdering one woman every 3 days - but mostly those are the ones we live with or are related to 🤷🏻‍♀️

Couldn't agree with this more!

While Farage & Co have been busy kicking up a stink over the summer, the number of people waiting with unprocessed applications is lower than it was during peak Tory incompetence & he didn't say or do anything about it then.

Equally, every man who sexually assaults or rapes a woman in this country should be pursued to the full extent of the law. Unfortunately, around 80 THOUSAND of the homegrown ones a year are never prosecuted.

Where's Farage's outrage about THAT?!?

AutumnalLight · 10/09/2025 22:33

MeandT · 10/09/2025 18:46

Couldn't agree with this more!

While Farage & Co have been busy kicking up a stink over the summer, the number of people waiting with unprocessed applications is lower than it was during peak Tory incompetence & he didn't say or do anything about it then.

Equally, every man who sexually assaults or rapes a woman in this country should be pursued to the full extent of the law. Unfortunately, around 80 THOUSAND of the homegrown ones a year are never prosecuted.

Where's Farage's outrage about THAT?!?

💯!!!!

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RoseAlone · 10/09/2025 22:36

Well said, 👏👏👏👏👏👏

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