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To be really creeped out?

15 replies

Checkcheckout · 04/09/2025 22:16

I got a text from a number I don’t know earlier, which just said ‘fuck off lethally!’.

It’s put me in a bit of a tailspin as I don’t know who could hate me enough to send me a text to tell me to fuck off and die. I’m pretty antisocial and don’t really deal with many people on a day to day basis, except in a sport I do which is generally very friendly.

As far as I know I don’t have enemies, except my psycho ex but I have a non mol order against him, and my gut tells me this isn’t his style.

Feeling very creeped out and it doesn’t help that DP isn’t around until tomorrow.

Please take my mind off it!

OP posts:
CloseThatDoor · 04/09/2025 22:18

Probably some kid sending random messages to random numbers.

Naws · 04/09/2025 22:18

Starting a thread is never going to take your mind off it.

Did you Google the number before you blocked it?

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 04/09/2025 22:18

It's very likely to be random.

fluff26 · 04/09/2025 22:19

Wrong number surely?

PrincessC0nsuelaBananaHammock · 04/09/2025 22:23

I would have texted back and said, "You first". Before blocking.

Checkcheckout · 04/09/2025 22:24

I really hope it is just completely random and not aimed at me.

@Naws yes googled it and nothing came up, then blocked. It’s registered to three mobile but that’s all I know.

OP posts:
popdepop · 04/09/2025 23:03

can you add the number as a contact and check WhatsApp for a photo? sorry this has happened 💐

ResusciAnnie · 04/09/2025 23:05

Eyeroll and block

HevenlyMeS · 04/09/2025 23:11

I'm sorry to hear you received such a cruel message
I think it's probably meant for someone else or just randomly sent to numerous different innocent souls like your good self 🙏
It would unsettle me too & I'm praying your partner can be with you, as soon's possible to help you feel protected
How someone can sleep, after sending malicious messages to innocent people, I'll never comprehend
Do you have any family closeby or a friend from the sport you participate in, to give you some moral support, in the meantime?
You're not alone
Please don't let some wicked soul with a twisted sense of humour, get the better of you
🙏🕯️🙏

HevenlyMeS · 04/09/2025 23:14

Yes possibly, but knowing a problem shared is a problem halved may hopefully help her feel supported & comforted that she's not alone 🙏
Most surely expressing is much healthier than suppression 🙏

Batstink · 04/09/2025 23:23

I’d delete and block the number, and think no more of it. It’s almost definitely not targeted at you.

myblueskirt · 04/09/2025 23:28

People do this for shock value. It’s abnormal and they send it to find power in the shock of it. Best to delete and ignore it. Bunch of pathetic losers behind it all.

I keep getting calls from numbers that leave me a voicemail to say an arrest warrant is out for me. Crazy!

Checkcheckout · 04/09/2025 23:47

Thank you all. A whole day of feeling sick and anxious (past trauma from ex triggers this, I have PTSD). I did the whatsapp thing and the welcome message ‘as in hi I’m using WhatsApp’ is in Russian. Feel a lot better now as I don’t know any Russians so it’s very unlikely to be aimed at me.

OP posts:
Whiskeypot · 05/09/2025 01:20

Had one saying hi how are you? Asked who it was and it said you know who this is. I just blocked it. I've heard of people getting these sort of msgs to get them to engage and then it turns out to be Russian introduction agencies which I was just reminded of when I saw your most recent post OP. Just forget it most likely nothing but random.

whitedoorsgalore · 05/09/2025 01:39

I got a random text a few weeks ago just saying, ‘hi, who is this?’ I replied by saying ‘you go first’. Person wouldn’t give their name but insisted I’d rung them. I did the WhatsApp photo thing and the person was in Nigeria. I think it’s just scammers hoping to provoke a reaction and lure you into giving them money.

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