If we're talking of pimping out, that's what KP has been doing to Harvey for his entire life.
She fucked off on holiday more often than she had hot dinners, leaving him in the care of god knows who - this was back when Harvey was living at home. Anyone who has a severely autistic child knows that consistency and familiar people are important. Predictability is important too - autistic kids often really struggle with unpredictable situations. Not knowing if your mum was going to be at home next week, or what bloke she might have with her, must have had an effect on Harvey.
She absolutely used Harvey as currency to prop up her own PR.
As a mum to two autistic DC myself, one with high needs, KP did so very little compared to all of the other SEN parents I know. She was ill-informed and centred herself in everything.
On a more personal note, I really wanted more children. Desperately. The DC's dad disappeared when I was pregnant and for the last 15 years I've been with a decent and lovely man. My DC are twins. We realised that actually, it wasn't fair to bring another baby into the house - not fair on my existing DC and not fair on the baby. We gave up on our dream of having a baby, because parenting children with high needs is hard work, and when your child is never going to live independently, there's no let up.
KP has never put her children first. Not even Harvey.
I was ambivalent about PA, still am. But he has held his silence for many years while KP talked absolute shit about him, he never confirmed the rumours that Princess and Junior had been removed from her care. He could have blasted her many years previously, but he didn't. He put the kids first. Whatever you think of him as a person, he seems to be a genuine family man who is looking out for his children in the face of unbelievable provocation.
Also, as an autistic woman who also has ADHD (and someone who was abused as a child and then raped as an adult) myself, I find it so insulting that people try to pin KP's disgusting behaviour on her neurodivergence, or her history. Absolutely no fucking excuse.
That video of the kids not having any food on Christmas Day broke me. I don't understand how anyone is defending KP.