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Misgendered a dog.....πŸ•πŸΆπŸΎ

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shellyleppard · 01/08/2025 18:25

Slightly light hearted but seriously....met a lovely little poodle today. It was tied up outside a shop for quite a while. Made a fuss of it, checked the collar for a name. Digby ❀️ wearing a pink collar and little harness. Owner eventually came back and I complimented her on her lovely little girl. Turned out it was a boy...... why put it in a pink harness and collar!!! She was not very happy πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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lifeonthelane · 01/08/2025 19:40

My male labrador wore a pink collar for the first 2 years of his life. My 4 year old daughter chose it for him, and obviously I wasn't about to say no to her choice because "pink is for girls" πŸ™„ but I never got annoyed when everyone thought he was a girl πŸ˜‚

shellyleppard · 01/08/2025 21:22

@AdaColeman πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚i only speak catanese πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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INeedAnotherAlibi · 01/08/2025 21:31

My dog has a pink collar and is always misgendered as a boy because she’s a border terrier, so it looks like she has a beard, so people assume she is a boy πŸ˜† she’s never been upset by it though!

amillionandone · 01/08/2025 21:38

I wouldn't assume 'Digby' was a boy, and pink is still more often used for girls/females. It doesn't matter at all, of course, but if you're the type of person to be offended if your dog is misgendered, surely you make life easier for everyone and choose blue, green, yellow, orange, red, black, white, or basically anything but pink. She was being very silly.

BogRollBOGOF · 01/08/2025 21:42

As long as you didn't say something like "ooh what a bitch"

I doubt Digby was personally offended.

DiscoBob · 01/08/2025 21:44

Yeah, to me digby is a boy dog name. And many people automatically say dogs are male regardless. Like 'good boy' etc. And that cats are female!?

LeaAndDer · 01/08/2025 21:46

My dog is a cutie always mistaken for a bitch. He’s a neutered dog - even he doesn’t understand what he is.

SprayWhiteDung · 01/08/2025 21:47

Miyagi99 · 01/08/2025 19:25

People always assume my dog is a boy, even going so far as to check she hasn’t got balls because they don’t believe me!

Eh? Loads of male dogs have 'been done' and don't have balls anymore!

SprayWhiteDung · 01/08/2025 21:50

With things like collars and leads - and indeed pushchairs for toddlers - what if you originally had a female dog/child and followed the stereotype and then later have a male dog/child?

Would you really stop using a perfectly good collar or pushchair or whatever and buy a new one, just because it happens to be pink?!

Miyagi99 · 01/08/2025 22:06

SprayWhiteDung · 01/08/2025 21:47

Eh? Loads of male dogs have 'been done' and don't have balls anymore!

I know, not sure why they were looking, just really doubted me πŸ˜‚

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