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Worried about cats I’m cat sitting

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Discoprincess6 · 26/07/2025 18:47

Hi I’ve had a couple of cat sitting jobs for the same girl. She has two cats. They are fed twice a day. One auto feeder biscuits then I come in the night for one sachet of wet food.

they always always seem hungry still after eating. The female cat always hangs on round the boys bowl to eat what’s left.

they coats are shiny and they seem happy. However I can feel the male cats spine when stroking him and he does look very slim.

maybe my cat is fat I don’t know. I just know that they do always always seem hungry.

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Newname71 · 26/07/2025 18:49

Some cats are just naturally thin. Ours is a greedy bugger who will just eat and eat if we let him. He finishes his own food then starts on the dogs! He’s very, very thin. Looks half starved compared to most other cats. He’s been to the vets who said he is very thin (not emaciated) but otherwise fit and healthy.

SoScarletItWas · 26/07/2025 18:50

Sounds fine. I can feel both my cats’ spine (and one of them is a bit fat).

This chart shows that you can feel the spine in an ideal weight.

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Strawberrri · 26/07/2025 18:50

Do cats get worms?

I'm not a cat owner but perhaps there's a reason he is so skinny.
If they were hungry they would just catch birds or mice surely but maybe there is another reason.

Isittimeformynapyet · 26/07/2025 18:51

Cats are known liars. They will always swear down that they haven't been fed, even to the person who just fed them.

Don't worry about their weight unless they've suddenly lost loads while you've been looking after them. That's for your friend to judge.

AnonKat · 26/07/2025 18:56

I think we are soo used to fat cats that normal size cats look skinny! My bengal is very slim and only 3kg, but vet said she is perfect. I also have a chunk who is 4kg, but her body shape is a cube 🤣

tinyspiny · 26/07/2025 18:59

We have a Siamese who is the perfect size according to the vets and she looks lean , according to the vet I saw last week most cats ( and dogs) are overweight now and that means people look at normal sized animals and think they are thin .

Octavia64 · 26/07/2025 19:01

You can feel the spine in two of my three cats.

the other one is a fat git.

all will swear blind they have not been fed when one of my kids fed them five mins ago.

titchy · 26/07/2025 19:22

You’re supposed to be able to feel their spines Confused

RoseAlone · 26/07/2025 19:35

This is why people should only employ professional pet sitters rather than people who think because they have a cat they can look after others properly 🙄

Discoprincess6 · 26/07/2025 19:37

RoseAlone · 26/07/2025 19:35

This is why people should only employ professional pet sitters rather than people who think because they have a cat they can look after others properly 🙄

That’s a bit harsh. I’m looking after them great thanks.

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Discoprincess6 · 26/07/2025 19:38

Thanks guys for your helpful replies 💕 my girl is an actual chonk she is on a diet. Her dad was feeding her treats like I don’t know what so I stopped buying them.

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