I lost someone close in horrible circumstances very recently.
A friend who knows reached out which was kind - but then said they’d had a really tough week as they had witnessed a stranger slip and fall in front of them and badly hurt themself.
I get that’s horrible but also it feels a bit attention seeking! And honestly If that’s what they count as a horrible week I just can’t engage right now. Said friend does have a bit of a habit of hijacking other peoples traumas and can be a slight grief vulture