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Do teachers expect individual gifts?

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RCJJ · 24/07/2025 14:01

Last day of school today for my twins. A few weeks ago one of the mums organised a whip round for end of term vouchers for all the teachers (two teachers, two TAs and the Head) - she got tonnes of contributions and they’ve all got a hefty M&S voucher and some chocs with a card signed from all the Mums etc. I sent over my £20 to be a part of that and thought ‘job done’!

This morning at drop off all the kids are walking in with gift bags! Crocheted flowers, key rings, chocolates just all sorts, loads of bouquets. I felt bloody awful.

Would teachers still have expected this individually even with the vouchers? Should I grab something before 3:30??

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SisterMargaretta · 25/07/2025 09:27

Teachers don't expect anything. Maybe those who brought individual gifts didn't contribute to the group gift. Not everyone wants to.

Grammarninja · 15/12/2025 15:24

RCJJ · 24/07/2025 14:01

Last day of school today for my twins. A few weeks ago one of the mums organised a whip round for end of term vouchers for all the teachers (two teachers, two TAs and the Head) - she got tonnes of contributions and they’ve all got a hefty M&S voucher and some chocs with a card signed from all the Mums etc. I sent over my £20 to be a part of that and thought ‘job done’!

This morning at drop off all the kids are walking in with gift bags! Crocheted flowers, key rings, chocolates just all sorts, loads of bouquets. I felt bloody awful.

Would teachers still have expected this individually even with the vouchers? Should I grab something before 3:30??

Absolutely not! No teacher would expect even close to what you've already contributed nevermind additional things. A lovely, personal, appreciative card would be the icing on the cake. Teacher here btw.

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