Would this be a nursery red flag

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If you overheard a member of staff saying ‘’they all want everything today… it’s ok but I don’t have the patience. They’re all being really needy’’

Yes

Depends on whether venting to colleague or I'm any way out into practice

The 'its okay' suggests they acknowledge that they understand that the issue is with them and venting to me

No not on its own. People are.allowed to have difficult days and to vent to colleagues.

Who did they say it to and what was their tone?