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Crush on colleague

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Luca987 · 02/07/2025 18:32

Hello I would say I am I bisexual but I haven’t been in a relationship with a woman but I have a crush on my colleague. She has said a few hints at being gay/bi and then glanced my way. Would it be a bad idea to open any thing up

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Luca987 · 02/07/2025 18:33

Maybe would say bi curious

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StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 02/07/2025 18:36

Think very carefully before shitting where you eat.

Mrsttcno1 · 02/07/2025 18:51

Having seen many a workplace relationship end in disaster, I wouldn’t, male or female. Unless you’d be happy and prepared to leave the job if things didn’t work out.

Arlanymor · 02/07/2025 18:53

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 02/07/2025 18:36

Think very carefully before shitting where you eat.

This, a million times this. And if you are uncertain better to test the water elsewhere than with someone you regularly come into professional contact with. Sure, plenty of people meet their partners at work (hello, I married and divorced a colleague back in the day!) but if you are still working out how you feel about your sexuality then I think it's best to get to grips with that first with someone 'neutral' for want of a better turn of phrase. Good luck!

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