You say he is unable to show emotion and empathy well I'm the one being assessed for ADHD and Autism yet my partner is the heartless one. He doesn't know how to be loving because of his past.
He'd rather be out doing his volunteer work or in community meetings than go for a day out with me and his toddler. So I completely understand.
I do sometimes feel like I'm being unreasonable so I do think that he should have time with friends if he wants to but he should also be there for his family, which is what most of our arguments are about.
The fact that he puts the community above his family.