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too many weekends (at work)

43 replies

holidaysoon · 23/05/2008 21:41

dh works weekends

In august there are 5 weekends

He has just been told he is working the 1st, 2nd and 4th

the friday of the 3rd

Bank holiday Monday (the 5th weekend)

To make it really awful my in-laws are threatening a visit in August

I want to emigrate!!!!

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holidaysoon · 23/05/2008 22:15

I feel better
thanks

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getmeouttahere · 23/05/2008 22:20

That was rather rude holidaysoon

Actually I do work weekends in my chosen career. I get paid well for it in the NHs so would not dream of bleating about it on here.

As frustrating as it is, people will be ill no matter what day of the week it is (how thoughtless of them).

holidaysoon · 23/05/2008 22:23

Double piss off
you must be a manager

I don't think anyone doing anything useful in the NHS gets 'paid well', certainly not by London standards

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getmeouttahere · 23/05/2008 22:24

I am not a manager.

And you have no manners.

Perhaps you should move out of London.

holidaysoon · 23/05/2008 22:32

la la la la

I've got my fingers in my ears and I'm not listening to you

Judging by your 21.58 post I think you've got a chip on your shoulder

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getmeouttahere · 23/05/2008 22:33
loudmouth · 23/05/2008 22:38

whoah freyed nerves there

if your DHs salary isn't too bad then i wouldn't worry about it
if you think he doesnt earn enough for the effort he;s putting in then suggest he speaks to the powers that be about worklife balance
what is his opinion about the wekend working?

deanychip · 23/05/2008 22:47

that is absolutely crap,it means as well that you will have this hanging over you all summer, what crap for you.

You cant plan any thing can you?

The hossy docs i work with are all cheerful chaps, you would not know that they are fed up and doing it cos they have to.

Luckily for me, i can choose if i work weekends...i choose to NOT work many although it is a good boost to my wages ifi do.

holidaysoon · 23/05/2008 23:02

Not really loudmouth

It's just as everyone says and as has saved me from putting my foot in it many times why post if you can't say anything useful?

And why post I had some sympathy but now I don't?

What was it? once she discovered his job she has no sympathy because she's decided we're rich w&^%$(s and we deserve it (we're neither!) but lets face it she knows nothing about us or what we do or how we live or anything else. I wanted a winge and I had it and I feel better, as I said it's all that time with the MIL I really don't like, all she's done is show she's bitter

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loudmouth · 23/05/2008 23:08

goo d luck to you holiday

holidaysoon · 23/05/2008 23:11

Now you're pissed off with me too!

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Sidge · 23/05/2008 23:17

I can sympathise (a bit ) as my DH is going to be away from June 2nd to August 15th. As in away away, not home at all, occasionally incommunicado. He's in the military.

Yes I knew what I was letting myself in for when we met, yes I know it's his job, no he doesn't get paid brilliantly for it, but if I want to whinge I bloody well will.

So there

holidaysoon · 23/05/2008 23:19

Ahhh
pats sidge on back and makes her a cup of tea (wine?)

That's worse I guess because my dh is just going to work yours is presumably doing something with a bit more risk than catching the 7am train
Still it will be nice when he gets back

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Sidge · 23/05/2008 23:22

Ooh wine please. And chocolate if you've got some. Thanks!

(and yes the homecomings are always wonderful, but I tend to be too knackered to fully appreciate them!)

surprise · 23/05/2008 23:27

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holidaysoon · 23/05/2008 23:27

Easter egg
Malteasers
Fondant fancy (you can have the chocolate one!)

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Sidge · 23/05/2008 23:30

I'll take all 3 thanks.

Surprise - now that is a situation to avoid!!

holidaysoon · 23/05/2008 23:50
Shock
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