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Car wash etiquette

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ItsNiceItsDifferentItsUnusual · 20/06/2025 12:20

Who's right here?

Person A parks up, buys ticket, then enters car wash queue.

Person B enters car wash queue then leaves car to buy ticket.

I am person A, resulting in me being behind the queue of person B even though I had a ticket and they didn't. I don't think that's 'fair'. Person B seemed to think that the queue is at the car wash and it's fine to do what they did.

Would genuinely like to know if I'm being a dick? It's not the first time it's happened. Car wash is very popular.

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ApolloandDaphne · 20/06/2025 13:00

I would do what B does. Makes sense. You get in the queue then buy your ticket.

JabbaTheBeachHut · 20/06/2025 13:02

Person B is far more efficient!

What on earth were you thinking OP?

SJM1988 · 20/06/2025 13:06

Naturally I do A as I would hate to hold a queue up getting my ticket.
But B is definitely far more efficient if there is a queueing system.

DDivaStar · 20/06/2025 13:10

I do b but where I usually go there's only 2 spaces for parking, doing a would mean blocking those for people who want to only use the shop.

youwouldthink · 20/06/2025 13:13

Omg...I see car wash empty. Happy days!! Run in to buy ticket and drive around and all of a sudden 4 cars in front. Every.Time.!!

Donotpanicoknowpanic · 20/06/2025 13:13

B is fine

Assume you can't buy often you can queue and then pay by card at the beginning of the car wash

Next time you know what to do

KrisAkabusi · 20/06/2025 13:18

You're not being a dick, you're just not efficient. B isn't being a dick either.

ItsNiceItsDifferentItsUnusual · 20/06/2025 13:20

It seems so far I'm in the minority!! Food for thought.

My particular gripe today was that I could not enter the empty car wash because I had an empty car parked up in front of me.

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DancingNotDrowning · 20/06/2025 13:22

Caveat I’ve never actually been in a car wash but…

I would automatically have down what you did but I actually think car B has the right idea!

TheSwarm · 20/06/2025 13:24

Option A all day long.

If you do B, half the time the carwash queue moves faster than a person can go and buy a ticket, so people who have paid are sat waiting for some dickhead to fanny around buying their code etc in the shop.

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