I have had a massive fallout with DH as it’s our 3 kids sports day on Friday and the last time that they will ever have one all together. My husband has agreed to a work related golf day on the same day and has said that he won’t cancel as he doesn’t want to waste his time watching the kids as they never practice at home and the races are done by house so it’s all of waste of time. All day he has moaned about the kids and sulked about me giving him a hard time. I think he is a complete arse, AIBU?